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12/14/2023 17:54

Subject: Here's a fun one- should I tell a past friend that her dead mom keeps reaching out to me?

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Anonymous wrote:Your dreams are your own subconscious thoughts. You’re not receiving messages from your childhood friend’s dead mom.

Please do not involve this woman in whatever you think is happening here.

Just say out loud - Stop coming into my dreams. Talk to your daughter directly.

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12/14/2023 21:57

Subject: Here's a fun one- should I tell a past friend that her dead mom keeps reaching out to me?

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Anonymous

Try to listen to her mom in your dreams first, figure out what she has to say. Then you will decide.

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12/14/2023 22:18

Subject: Here's a fun one- should I tell a past friend that her dead mom keeps reaching out to me?

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Anonymous wrote:If you are friends on social media, message her "I've been dreaming a lot about your mom lately for some reason, so you've been on my mind. How are you?"

I would do this, and just check in on your friend.

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12/14/2023 22:19

Subject: Here's a fun one- should I tell a past friend that her dead mom keeps reaching out to me?

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Anonymous

And, my childhood friend's dad sometimes comes to me in dreams asking me to be there for her. Then I get in touch and call to see how she's doing. I never tell her that her dad is coming to me in my dreams.

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12/14/2023 22:21

Subject: Here's a fun one- should I tell a past friend that her dead mom keeps reaching out to me?

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Anonymous wrote:If you are friends on social media, message her "I've been dreaming a lot about your mom lately for some reason, so you've been on my mind. How are you?"

I would do this, and just check in on your friend.

My mom died long ago. I would be so happy if someone called and said hey I've been thinking about your mom. I remember once when she....

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12/14/2023 22:28

Subject: Here's a fun one- should I tell a past friend that her dead mom keeps reaching out to me?

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Anonymous

Anonymous wrote:Please don't do this.

Just let her know you're thinking about her and her lovely mom.

Yeah, I wouldn’t burden your friend but this a nice message.

You have a gift OP!

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12/14/2023 23:26

Subject: Here's a fun one- should I tell a past friend that her dead mom keeps reaching out to me?

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Anonymous wrote:Please don't do this.

Just let her know you're thinking about her and her lovely mom.

Yeah, I wouldn’t burden your friend but this a nice message.

You have a gift OP!

+1.

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12/15/2023 01:14

Subject: Here's a fun one- should I tell a past friend that her dead mom keeps reaching out to me?

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Anonymous wrote:I promise I'm not crazy. Just an average mid 30s busy working mom who has never talked to anyone about this.

I had a best friend from kindergarten to 8th grade. We went to different high schools and eventually drifted midway through HS. Her mom died very suddenly when we were in 8th grade and were super close at the time. The mom has been "with" me every since- in my dreams, I see her out of the corner of my eye VERY distinctly several times per year for the last 20+ years, I don't know how to explain it but she like nags my thoughts every few years.

I've always just ignored it. But the last week it will not stop. I keep thinking or dreaming of her holding a baby and have the overwhelming feeling/nagging thoughts that the old friend either recently lost a baby and the mom "has it" or she is struggling to get pregnant and the mom is....idk holding the baby and about to "send it down"? I absolutely realize how ridiculous this sounds.

Do I continue to ignore or message the former friend on social media like a crazy lady? 🤪

(fwiw I've unintentionally received and delivered "messages" before several times from other people but I avoid this all and pretend it doesn't exist in my life)

Absolutely. I've had similar dreams and always tell the person

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12/15/2023 01:24

Subject: Here's a fun one- should I tell a past friend that her dead mom keeps reaching out to me?

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I would want to know if I were your friend! It would bring me comfort to feel like she was still out there and cared and was connected to me somehow.

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12/15/2023 01:28

Subject: Here's a fun one- should I tell a past friend that her dead mom keeps reaching out to me?

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Anonymous wrote:I would want to know if I were your friend! It would bring me comfort to feel like she was still out there and cared and was connected to me somehow.

Same. If you’re already not in close contact with the friend, what do you have to lose?

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12/15/2023 01:29

Subject: Here's a fun one- should I tell a past friend that her dead mom keeps reaching out to me?

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Anonymous

I would be happy to know a friend was thinking about my mom and had nice things to say about her.

I would be very unhappy to think my mom was appearing from beyond the grave to other people but not to me.

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12/15/2023 06:34

Subject: Here's a fun one- should I tell a past friend that her dead mom keeps reaching out to me?

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At least reach out to your friend. I’d update your connection with her. Have at least conversions of get togethers. Maybe you can help this friend by being a listening ear.

Don’t bring up mom unless she brings up something about her mom. And even then……

Her mom wants you to reach out. Doesn’t want you to scare her.

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12/15/2023 06:35

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Anonymous

^three

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12/15/2023 06:45

Subject: Here's a fun one- should I tell a past friend that her dead mom keeps reaching out to me?

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Anonymous

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Anonymous wrote:If you are friends on social media, message her "I've been dreaming a lot about your mom lately for some reason, so you've been on my mind. How are you?"

I would do this, and just check in on your friend.

This is probably what I would do as well. I have done mediumship (not professionally) before, and while I very well may have been connected to departed loved ones, the universe also works through symbols and the dreams of your friends mother could be a symbol sent to you as a sign your friend may be in need.

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12/15/2023 09:22

Subject: Here's a fun one- should I tell a past friend that her dead mom keeps reaching out to me?

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Oddly enough I had multiple experiences of people telling me my dad showed up for them after death. My dad died suddenly, no illness, and I think he just felt he had unfinished business. I always appreciated hearing and the messages rang true for me. (I don’t consider myself that woo but it happened too often for me to not think there was something to it.). I’m team tell your friend her mom has been in your dreams lately so you have been thinking of the friend.