For the Camp Kodiak posters, any sense of how obvious the neurodivergence is? I have a kid who presents as neurotypical for the first 5 minutes you are around him, but quickly it’s clear that he struggles in reciprocal conversation and perspective taking. That said, we have lots of friends and family that think we are oversensitive about his challenges and say unhelpful things like “he’s a little awkward or immature but nothing striking.” I know they mean well, but he has real struggles making friends and always has, and it is clear why when you watch his peer interactions.
Still, he doesn’t have insight about how his behavior affects his ability to make friends, so when we have sent him to social skills groups and neurodivergent camps, he just returns saying the other kids have problems, but doesn’t the commonality. So, for a sleepaway camp, one that has visible supports and kids that are explosive, etc. - he likely won’t do well because of his own judgmental stuff. We try a lot to gently (and sometimes even less gently) help him understand his social skills deficits, but so far it hasn’t been effective. So wondering if Kodiak would have the social skills supports but have the vibe of an everyday camp. When I called and spoke with the director, it seemed great. But she did mention that there were some cabins that required more support with everyday function- and that’s what made me uncertain.
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