Commitment Issues

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm the one with commitment issues in my relationship. I've been with my boyfriend 7 months and we spend most days together and sleepover, but the idea of officially living together (and him giving up his place) or marriage triggers my commitment-phobia. We are both divorced, mine is much fresher and I have young kids.

What is it about commitment that scares you?

DP. Because it sucks? There is no reason to have a second marriage. Zero.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for several months. We have an amazing connection and mutually enjoy one another. He went through a terrible divorce 3 years ago that ruined him financially, and he’s since been working to rebuild. As a result he’s very weary of serious commitment. I would like to report we one day with someone and remarry or cohabitate, of which he is aware. Would you move on in this situation? Or let it play out?

Does your veejay shoot out $100 bills? If not it's just like all the others and there is an ample supply.

He would have to be insane to remarry after being taken to the cleaners. Fool me once...

What makes you such a special unicorn OP that he should take a chance that big?