That's fine but you are no 35. |
| Do you have kids or plan on having any?I essentially “retired” at 35 to raise our children and have no intention of going back to work once they are older. My DH is absolutely not resentful because I contribute to our family in many other valuable ways. |
| I would love to do the FIRE thing. I could comfortably live on $2k a month while healthy. The thing that keeps me from doing it is long term care. If you have enough money to cover a few years of assisted living, you do not need to live lean when healthy. |
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For just one person, I still think $1 million will do it. Move to a LCOL/MCOL area, buy a condo for $300K, keep $100K in cash, and invest the remaining $600K in stocks earning 6% such that you have an annual income of $36K.
The real trick there is learning about investing so that you can actually generate 6%. |
| How frugal are you right now. The odds are that you aren't going to spend significantly less when retired. |
| Unless you have a few million, I wouldn't do it. Sounds like you need a different less stressful job. |
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I am 50 and have 2 million in 401k, 200k Roth and 300k in non-retirement accounts.
DH is 58 and has similar assets, so about 5m total. Paid off home. 250k in 529 for 2 kids 14 and 19. No family money and no pension. I am thinking of quiting every day while DH wants to wait till younger DS graduate HS. |
So you want to be a SAHM? |
OP here. Do it! Your DH can wait years to retire. |
| One spouse retiring early has caused resentment in our marriage. We regret it. YMMV. |
We have similar stats but we are a bit younger and our kids are a lot younger. (Had them late in life.) DH is fed, will have a pension, and wants to retire as soon as he is eligible in a couple of years. I am the main breadwinner and want to wait until the youngest graduates high school. My two reasons are: (1) being risk averse and (2) I want to instill good work ethic in my children and have them see us as being productive members of the society. |
That’s not a lean budget. Or maybe in DCUM land it is? |
$4k per month AFTER mortgage payment is not “Lean”. Lol you’re delusional. |
Why doesn’t spouse just start working again? This seems like an easy fix. |
Well, their career is not one that is easy to re-enter--and they have kind of stalled. We're working on it. |