DC is taking after his father

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, what you describe is terrible and unacceptable. You may not realize how serious it is. You cannot change your husband, but it is your responsibility to influence your son.

Tell him that his father's behavior is not normal. Have him spend more time with caring, considerate men such as your brothers and father. Tell him that those are role models that he should emulate.

My husband is similar, and I am counting the months until I can divorce him.

Yes, I think divorcing someone who behaves like this is crucial. The child is being negatively impacted and will model their own adult relationships based on what they see their Father do.
This is unacceptable. OP needs to demand respect and send a clear message to both her spouse as well as her child that this behavior is very disrespectful and will not be tolerated by any means.