Very attractive women, how has your dating life been?

[Anonymous]

I married my college boyfriend, so very short.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I always wonder about women who respond to threads like this. Do you really think you are "Very" attractive? LOL.

NP I modeled so I kind of know. I don't generally respond to questions like this because what is there to really say.

Maybe you are old but model nowadays are not that attractive.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I always wonder about women who respond to threads like this. Do you really think you are "Very" attractive? LOL.

NP I modeled so I kind of know. I don't generally respond to questions like this because what is there to really say.

Maybe you are old but model nowadays are not that attractive.

Lol. Do you think I'm 21 and posting on DCUM? I was a print catalog model in the early aughts.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I always wonder about women who respond to threads like this. Do you really think you are "Very" attractive? LOL.

NP I modeled so I kind of know. I don't generally respond to questions like this because what is there to really say.

Maybe you are old but model nowadays are not that attractive.

Yep, all one has to do is look at the victoria's secret ads. Beautiful models from the 90's and early 2000's replaced by something that stepped out of a fat camp.

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Anonymous wrote:Wondering how dating life compares for those who are very attractive vs those of us who are average. Have you found it harder or easier to find a long term partner? Any disadvantages to being very attractive?

Advantage is that it is easy to find a man because men come up to me all the time. The downside is that men come up to me all time.

Where do they come up to you? DC women aren't the best dressers. Most of them lack makeup or good fashion sense and look like moms.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I always wonder about women who respond to threads like this. Do you really think you are "Very" attractive? LOL.

I don’t think they think they are Helen of Troy, but I think women know roughly what decile they fall in, or at the least which quartile!

Literally every woman I know thinks she's in the top quartile.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I always wonder about women who respond to threads like this. Do you really think you are "Very" attractive? LOL.

NP I modeled so I kind of know. I don't generally respond to questions like this because what is there to really say.

Maybe you are old but model nowadays are not that attractive.

Yep, all one has to do is look at the victoria's secret ads. Beautiful models from the 90's and early 2000's replaced by something that stepped out of a fat camp.

Yeah and you still don't have a shot with them. That must hurt.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I always wonder about women who respond to threads like this. Do you really think you are "Very" attractive? LOL.

NP I modeled so I kind of know. I don't generally respond to questions like this because what is there to really say.

Maybe you are old but model nowadays are not that attractive.

Yep, all one has to do is look at the victoria's secret ads. Beautiful models from the 90's and early 2000's replaced by something that stepped out of a fat camp.

Yeah and you still don't have a shot with them. That must hurt.

Not a guy but maybe you like to feel the fat between your hands?

[Anonymous]

I'm a man. Before I married my ex wife, I rarely dated beautiful women. Now I sometimes do. They definitely have a lot of options. They don't necessarily have more confidence than anyone else. They have the full range of attachment styles and psychological issues that everyone else has. What they don't have is loneliness due to nobody calling them. At the same time, they are more likely to worry that men are pursuing them as conquests rather than true relationship options.

[Anonymous]

It’s Saturday night and I’m on DCum. What does that tell you?

[Anonymous]

I have been told I'm very attractive for my age.

I don't think it's much different because most women get hit on more than men and have to deal with jerks. The main difference is in quantity. I feel pretty confident that most men I find attractive will find me attractive - for one date at least. Some guys might get so excited they've landed someone they think is hotter than they've had before, that they stick around and waste your time longer than they might have otherwise.

In the end it's still all about compatibility in interests, personality and lifestyles.

[Anonymous]

I've observed that gorgeous women often end up with gorgeous men -- and most gorgeous men cheat, because they can. There's more stability in a relationship between two 4's, in my observation.

But then I wonder, yeah but do those two 4's actually still have the hots for each other now that the new relationship energy has worn off? So more stable, maybe, but also more dead bedrooms?

Shrug. I'm a divorced 7.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've observed that gorgeous women often end up with gorgeous men -- and most gorgeous men cheat, because they can. There's more stability in a relationship between two 4's, in my observation.

But then I wonder, yeah but do those two 4's actually still have the hots for each other now that the new relationship energy has worn off? So more stable, maybe, but also more dead bedrooms?

Shrug. I'm a divorced 7.

The two 9s don’t have the hots for each other after 10 years either, for the most part.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I've observed that gorgeous women often end up with gorgeous men -- and most gorgeous men cheat, because they can. There's more stability in a relationship between two 4's, in my observation.

But then I wonder, yeah but do those two 4's actually still have the hots for each other now that the new relationship energy has worn off? So more stable, maybe, but also more dead bedrooms?

Shrug. I'm a divorced 7.

The two 9s don’t have the hots for each other after 10 years either, for the most part.

I suspect this is true, but as a 9 who has watched their spouse go from a 7 to a 4, I think it must help to not have objective physical repulsion be a factor.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I always wonder about women who respond to threads like this. Do you really think you are "Very" attractive? LOL.

NP I modeled so I kind of know. I don't generally respond to questions like this because what is there to really say.

I modeled too, but am the first to admit that a lot of models aren’t actually attractive.