| My kids have always hated the beach and love European cities. I bet they would like Mexico City though. |
Interesting. I guess I’ve never considered “vacation” to be synonymous with relaxing. A vacation can be whatever you want it to be. But whatever!
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| DSs vote is for Europe, coastal Spain and France are his favorite places. |
Which cities in Spain and France did he enjoy? |
| It’s threads like this that make me realize I do not belong on DCUM. |
| We prefer Europe, the kids prefer Mexico and request it every time. They have warm memories of the people, food, pool and activities which were are a bit more familiar to them. I feel bad they haven't been in years but not bad enough to book it again just yet. |
You don't have to sightsee in Europe. There's plenty of beaches for relaxation and water sports. |
I think that when I read about people with $20K vacations. If you stick to Southern Europe, it's really no more expensive than a domestic vacation that involves flying. |
My kids notice the difference between playing on the beach, swimming, fishing, chilling on a boat, etc. vs sightseeing, museum hopping, etc. Vacation vs trip They consider our Caribbean trips vacations and I think they worry that our upcoming trips to the Mediterranean won’t be as relaxing. |
Sure, but their beaches aren’t as good. They are ridiculously small, crowded, and oftentimes littered with trash. Once you’ve vacationed on an empty Caribbean beach, it’s really hard to sit on a crowded beach. |
Are you and your partner beach people? I’m always baffled by kids (and people in general) who don’t like the beach. Who doesn’t love swimming in the Caribbean? |
People with sensory issues, people who burn easily, people who get migraines from bright sunlight..really it’s not difficult or baffling at all. |
I dunno, We had a long stretch of the unittered Meia Praia to ourselves this past July. |
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At this point I’d only take my oldest to Europe. The younger two wouldn’t appreciate it and would rather be at a beach or anywhere with their friends. When we visited DC for the first time since we moved away when my oldest was a toddler my oldest stayed at the museums with me in the afternoons while DH and the younger two went back to the hotel pool.
There’s a 5 year age gap between the first and second kid so the differences are age appropriate. But if I’m spending $$$ to go to Europe we’re not hanging out a the pool or shopping every afternoon. |
Agreed. Why fly twice as far and deal with time zone changes for worse beaches, if beaches are all you're looking for? |