Skipping a day of school in middle school?

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Anonymous wrote:How is it high stakes in middle school?

That's what im wondering. Sure, MS is more work than elementary, but it shouldn't be that bad.

Sorry. In our school they change from simply “passing” and “failing” to high school prep with actual grades, so every little thing matters a bit more. Our school is a bit unique so I was wrong to assume every school was the same.

I don't think that is unique and I would not consider it high stakes. Most middle schools give actual grades. Do these grades factor into college admissions?

OP—DC is taking high school courses that count towards high school GPA.

Ask the teacher.

[Anonymous]

On a matter of principle, I wouldn't allow this. Teach your kid to be in school. As it is, school is so minimal if you're in public.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Probably since 2020 we have always allowed DD7th grade to skip the day before Thanksgiving break, when we would go get breakfast and then do something fun as a nuclear family before the chaos of the holiday. The stakes weren’t as high in elementary school and these were typically days in which much learning didn’t occur. I’m wondering what the day before TG break looks like in middle school, and if we should alter our plans now. Do they do major learning the day before a break in MS?

OP -- if your kid were sick, would you let her miss the day? If she did, would she be able to catch up what she missed? If she can skip a day being sick, then surely she can handle catching up if she were well???

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How is it high stakes in middle school?

That's what im wondering. Sure, MS is more work than elementary, but it shouldn't be that bad.

Sorry. In our school they change from simply “passing” and “failing” to high school prep with actual grades, so every little thing matters a bit more. Our school is a bit unique so I was wrong to assume every school was the same.

I don't think that is unique and I would not consider it high stakes. Most middle schools give actual grades. Do these grades factor into college admissions?

OP—DC is taking high school courses that count towards high school GPA.

Is your child okay with possibly missing a test or two? Mine wouldn’t. That is pretty much the only consideration; would they be okay with making up work after the break? In 7th grade, DD always had big assignments or tests right before long holidays so they wouldn’t have it hanging over their head during the break.

[Anonymous]

Personally I would change the tradition to the weekend before, or the Sunday of Thanksgiving weekend or something, unless it's a half day. But many other kids probably end up missing that whole week.

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We take our kids out all the time for trips. DS will miss a few days to go see his sisters at college for a football game. But he'll be "sick" as far as the school is concerned. If I even bother to call it in.

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Do you mean the Wed before Thanksgiving? Our school is off that day anyway. I probably won’t take off Tuesday just for this and would save it for a different day. But it’s fine if you do. I let mine skip some of the half days in middle school to sleep in.

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In public school, with good students, a day here and there is no big deal. At least not where live.

And that particular day, I think the absentee rate is over 25%.

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Do you mean the Tuesday before the Wednesday? Or the Wednesday? I would just do the fun stuff on Wednesday.

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Anonymous wrote:Probably since 2020 we have always allowed DD7th grade to skip the day before Thanksgiving break, when we would go get breakfast and then do something fun as a nuclear family before the chaos of the holiday. The stakes weren’t as high in elementary school and these were typically days in which much learning didn’t occur. I’m wondering what the day before TG break looks like in middle school, and if we should alter our plans now. Do they do major learning the day before a break in MS?

Middle school sure. Just communicate w teachers and administrator to get any work that might be missed. High school —not us.

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Does DC generally do well in school and have no problem keeping up? Do they tend to not otherwise take a lot of sick days? Then I wouldn’t hesitate - especially before a holiday.

We’ve pulled our kids for family trips and it has not been an issue at all, even in classes that get high school credit.

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It is fine. FFS.

Planning for your kids not to have a cold all year? What's the diff. GMAB.

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My 6th and 9th graders will be missing the whole thanksgiving week this year. They will make sure to let teachers know ahead so they can take tests early or get any work they miss to make up. No big deal.

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Is it already a half day? If it is just take your kid to school and then do brunch right after.