Ex reached out to me after 6 years to ask about physical therapy?

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04/30/2023 09:43

Subject: Ex reached out to me after 6 years to ask about physical therapy?

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Anonymous

I’m sure she contacted you for two reasons- for the referral and to test the waters in whether or not you’re interested in restarting a friendship or rekindling a relationship. It’s casual so if you ignore her or only just refer her it’s fine, but if you want to ask how she’s been that’s fine too. Low risk.

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04/30/2023 11:13

Subject: Ex reached out to me after 6 years to ask about physical therapy?

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Anonymous

Anonymous wrote:I’m sure she contacted you for two reasons- for the referral and to test the waters in whether or not you’re interested in restarting a friendship or rekindling a relationship. It’s casual so if you ignore her or only just refer her it’s fine, but if you want to ask how she’s been that’s fine too. Low risk.

PP, she just wants to know about physical therapy.

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04/30/2023 11:15

Subject: Ex reached out to me after 6 years to ask about physical therapy?

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Anonymous

Is this like an ex-wife, a long-term ex girlfriend, an ex you dated for a few months, or someone you, ahem, "saw" a few times?

Because for just about every single one but the wife one, it seems totally fine and normal and relevant to me.

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04/30/2023 11:33

Subject: Ex reached out to me after 6 years to ask about physical therapy?

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Anonymous

I don’t think it’s that weird but I would just recommend a PT near her and move on. You don’t have to work for free.

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04/30/2023 11:55

Subject: Re:Ex reached out to me after 6 years to ask about physical therapy?

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Anonymous

Divorced 2004. Two contacts with my ex since the final hearing, at our daughter’s wedding later that year and in 2011 regarding an old medical bill which was hers but I paid it anyway.

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04/30/2023 11:57

Subject: Ex reached out to me after 6 years to ask about physical therapy?

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Anonymous

It’s more weird that after 6 years you still find it weird.
Maybe you haven’t moved on quite yet?

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04/30/2023 12:38

Subject: Ex reached out to me after 6 years to ask about physical therapy?

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Anonymous

Anonymous wrote:I’m sure she contacted you for two reasons- for the referral and to test the waters in whether or not you’re interested in restarting a friendship or rekindling a relationship. It’s casual so if you ignore her or only just refer her it’s fine, but if you want to ask how she’s been that’s fine too. Low risk.

He’s the one who still follows her on social media and looks at her content but she unfollowed him years ago? I don’t get the feelings she’s interested in rekindling things with OP…

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05/01/2023 13:46

Subject: Ex reached out to me after 6 years to ask about physical therapy?

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Anonymous

OP, not weird but still probably worth seeing if you can hyperextend your D... with her when you respond.

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05/01/2023 13:58

Subject: Ex reached out to me after 6 years to ask about physical therapy?

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Anonymous

Not weird. Weird would be her asking you to visit for some PT. That would be inappropriate. This is not. She's clearly in pain and desperate for help.