Lesbian but otherwise very traditional

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They need to change the LGBTQ+ whatever into single lettered groups

Pull up that ladder behind you.

Meh, the TQ+ group is different than the LGB. The conflation of the two is less than ideal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Boring married lesbian with 2 teens. Our lives revolve around carpooling kids to their sporting events, attending our kids' sporting events, driving school carpool, hosting a bunch of teens at our house every weekend, doing errands (why so many errands?!?!), and figuring out what is for dinner every night (bane of my existence.) 99% of our friends are straight couples/parents of our kids' friends.

Wouldn't change a thing.

I could’ve written this post except on of our kids is in college. We’re a super boring couple. 😬

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They need to change the LGBTQ+ whatever into single lettered groups

Pull up that ladder behind you.

Meh, the TQ+ group is different than the LGB. The conflation of the two is less than ideal.

Speak for yourself. I'm bisexual and find my trans and queer friends experiences as or more relatable than my lesbian and gay friends.

OP, my friend group is as far as know monogamous and vanilla in real life. Including the queer and trans ones.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They need to change the LGBTQ+ whatever into single lettered groups

Pull up that ladder behind you.

Meh, the TQ+ group is different than the LGB. The conflation of the two is less than ideal.

Speak for yourself. I'm bisexual and find my trans and queer friends experiences as or more relatable than my lesbian and gay friends.

OP, my friend group is as far as know monogamous and vanilla in real life. Including the queer and trans ones.

Good point, the breakdown should really be LG vs BTQ+

[Anonymous]

When you say you feel "pressured" do you mean that people are threatening you in some way, or our people just posting/talking about their own lives and feelings and somehow that makes you feel persecuted. I'll give you the same advice I give my own tween (and I really hope she'll have this internalized by the time she grows up).

-the internet is not real life
-live your life and don't worry so much about other people
-other people expressing their thoughts and feelings is not pressure if you are confident in yourself
-it's okay for other people to be really different than you-if they aren't trying to make you do something you don't want to do just let them live their own weird lives

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They need to change the LGBTQ+ whatever into single lettered groups

Pull up that ladder behind you.

Meh, the TQ+ group is different than the LGB. The conflation of the two is less than ideal.

Speak for yourself. I'm bisexual and find my trans and queer friends experiences as or more relatable than my lesbian and gay friends.

OP, my friend group is as far as know monogamous and vanilla in real life. Including the queer and trans ones.

Good point, the breakdown should really be LG vs BTQ+

Are you gay or lesbian?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They need to change the LGBTQ+ whatever into single lettered groups

Im a lesbian and I agree.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They need to change the LGBTQ+ whatever into single lettered groups

Pull up that ladder behind you.

Meh, the TQ+ group is different than the LGB. The conflation of the two is less than ideal.

Yep.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They need to change the LGBTQ+ whatever into single lettered groups

Pull up that ladder behind you.

Meh, the TQ+ group is different than the LGB. The conflation of the two is less than ideal.

Speak for yourself. I'm bisexual and find my trans and queer friends experiences as or more relatable than my lesbian and gay friends.

OP, my friend group is as far as know monogamous and vanilla in real life. Including the queer and trans ones.

Delusions at its finest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They need to change the LGBTQ+ whatever into single lettered groups

Pull up that ladder behind you.

Meh, the TQ+ group is different than the LGB. The conflation of the two is less than ideal.

Speak for yourself. I'm bisexual and find my trans and queer friends experiences as or more relatable than my lesbian and gay friends.

OP, my friend group is as far as know monogamous and vanilla in real life. Including the queer and trans ones.

Good point, the breakdown should really be LG vs BTQ+

lmaooo i agree

[Anonymous]

How are you always seeing magazine articles about this and hearing talk about it? IME, you have to seek that out a bit, if you’re a 40+ lesbian in the DMV.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Stop. The majority of stable couples (of any sexual orientation) don't do this. This is just for a minority of people.

Don't read the mags, OP. Don't you know how they work? They need to sell new content every week. Cosmo has endless articles about new products and repackages relationship advice every week. This is the same thing. The magazine is selling you a sexual situation product, that hardly anyone ever enters into, just because it has to keep selling copies, and this is something people live vicariously, just like the other crap in other mags!

So calm down and relax. Most people live boring, classic lives.

Seriously this. Everyone I know, me included, has a bunch of kids, belongs to the PTA and vacations at Bethany Beach.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:They need to change the LGBTQ+ whatever into single lettered groups

Pull up that ladder behind you.

Meh, the TQ+ group is different than the LGB. The conflation of the two is less than ideal.

Speak for yourself. I'm bisexual and find my trans and queer friends experiences as or more relatable than my lesbian and gay friends.

OP, my friend group is as far as know monogamous and vanilla in real life. Including the queer and trans ones.

Good point, the breakdown should really be LG vs BTQ+

+1