im not forcing my 10yo to put a tampon inside herself and I’m assuming OP doesn’t want to force her 12yo. People pee in the pool, and there is fecal matter in there too unless literally everyone had showered before getting in. There are enough chemicals in the pool too… |
OP here. Thanks all. DD is grossed out by tampons at this point and I'm not going to force her.
So, really looking for brand recommendations or swimsuit types. I'll also check the archives. |
Then there is no point in paying all that money for “period swimwear”. Just have her wear regular swimwear since you don’t care about her bleeding into the water and blood being everywhere. |
There is nothing different about them. My daughter wears two piece bathing suits and it’s a basic black bottom. Another vote here for Ruby Love. She only uses them at the very end when she’s barely spotting. She also won’t use tampons so she avoids swimming during the heavy days. https://www.rubylove.com/collections/teen-period-swimwear |
So don’t force her. She can wear a tampon or not, chose to swim or not. But wearing a blood soaked swimsuit shouldn’t be an alternative |
I didn't even know this was a thing, it sounds disgusting. She learns to wear a tampon or she doesn't swim. |
Huh? |
How ignorant. I have no idea how they work but they do. We have a pool at our house and there is no blood flowing in the water. If I didn’t wear the period bathing suits there would be (i swim twice a day and have had my period surprise me). Anyways, I had a traumatic emergency delivery with forceps with one of my babies, and the damage is not fixable and I am unable to wear tampons. Believe me i have tried a lot of brands of period swimwear, and the winner for me is Knix. I have multiple pieces in solid black and also mix and match the bottoms with other black tops I have from j crew & summersault. Inwill say the Knix swimwear sizing seems to run smaller than their underwear. |
So much ignorance on here from people who’ve never seen or tried the period swimwear but want to share their opinions. |
If blood isn’t coming out when the suit is submerged in the water, then it’s not coming out when you wash the suit. So you’re either spreading your bloodd around to other swimmers (altho not you personally since you’re in a private pool) or you’re constantly sitting in a blood filled suit that is never clean. Nasty either way. |
Responders aren’t ignorant. They’re just grossed out at your nasty self. But you don’t care, right? |
OP, I just ordered one from Knix teens for DD. Haven’t used it yet, so I don’t know how well it works. Mine is not ready for tampons.
To whoever asked whether people can tell - it’s just a bathing suit. In our case, a black one. Half the swimmers are wearing one. |
There is not blood everywhere or leaking into the pool. That is the whole point. An explanation of how it works. It’s the same difference as wearing a sanitary napkin. I’m sure most of you grossed out have done that before.
The bottoms contain a triple-layer gusset that absorbs your flow and locks in leaks when you're in or out of the water. When it goes in the wash with detergent, the blood releases through the top layer—leaving your swimwear fresh and clean for next time. Here's the breakdown of our 3-layer leakproof technology: First Layer: Moisture-wicking, antimicrobial technology wicks away sweat and moisture while neutralizing odors. Second Layer: A super thin, highly absorbent liner that holds the power of 3 tampons or pads. Third Layer: A secure, liquid-resistant outer layer keeps blood from leaking when you're in or out of the water. |
Or there is the thing called detergent. |
What about a menstrual cup? They don’t go in deep like tampons. |