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Can you just get the most likely one and include a gift receipt?
Also, I thought everyone was about the old school Jansport backpack these days? |
Not the kid in question (or my kid or their friends or half the kids I see walking to HS) :p |
Maybe I’m the one who’s weird but if you know her mom has said it’s too expensive I think it’s wrong/passive-aggressive to buy it as a surprise. If a relative bought my kids AF1s without asking me I wouldn’t be happy. |
+2 my DD and her friends all have the Jester https://www.thenorthface.com/en-us/bags-and-gear/backpacks/womens-backpacks-c268801/womens-jester-backpack-pNF0A3VXG |
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The borealis is is the one my kids and friends have.
Here's a comparison; https://backpackies.com/blog/north-face-borealis-vs-jester |
I didn’t get that the mom thought she shouldn’t have it because of the price- it was that they had spent the money allocated for her Christmas presents on other things. The mom is getting her a new iPhone (when clearly there are cheaper choices) so I don’t think they are against expensive items altogether. |
My freshman DD and many of her friends also have the Borealis. I agree with the idea to get that and include a gift receipt and just let her know you absolutely won’t be offended if she wants to trade it. What an awesome aunt!! |
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OP just to be clear- are you spending $100+ for each of the 4 kids?
Is your sister getting your children gifts? So if you spend $500 on her kids and she spends $10 on yours… Something to think about. |
| Could you instead get a gift certificate to the store that carries them (e.g., Dick's) and then she can pick it out herself? And you aren't giving her a gift that your sister specifically said no to? |
| I would just check with your sister. I heard Larla mention a backpack. Would that be a good gift for this year? I would want to make sure the mom did not mention it to a grandparent or ?? |
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OP yes this is a possibility. Need to coordinate. |
| Am I the only one who thinks it’s crazy to spend $140 for a kid’s backpack? |
Exactly. And buy it from a store that is close to their house, so the exchange can be easy. |
No but this is why it's a great gift. |