OP here.. I should have added that our child already has an IEP in place, but elementary school is a real
Struggle academically (is dyslexic along with other struggles) and socially .. despite many accommodations and our ES making an effort to support in anyway they can. I worry in middle school our child will be lost with all the transitions and changing social dynamics and heavy use of tech (he struggles with the fast pace of some learning apps and grows frustrated with moving up levels) . We are assigned to Williamsburg but are considering a private specialty school- commonwealth or maybe Newton. Have heard better things abt Williamsburg vs others.. but seems that changes every year! Thank you for all the feedback. This is very helpful |
I didn’t say they would be fine. I said they will perform fine in middle school. |
And you could end up making more/new friends. Friendships change significantly through middle school and into high school regardless. Speaking from personal experience, yes, it is comforting to have a friend in your first homeroom in middle school. My best friend and I were; but we very quickly fell into different social circles as we met the other kids in our classes. |
Well, he didn’t have one in 6th or 7th grade. |
This isn't true. The core subjects are in the team. For my kid in 7th grade, it's just civics, English, and science with the team. Math where they are differentiated could be with anyone. Lunch is the whole grade (in my kid's MS at least). Elective period (could be band, chorus, drama, or whatever they offer) could be with anyone and your language once you get to 7th grade could be with anyone. |
Oh and I forgot PE which is very social. PE could be with anyone. That is the class they all want with friends. |
Basically in middle school as long as you aren’t alone you can make new friends. If you are isolated from your pack, you are tagged as a loser — same reason guys want a wingman because the single guy is bad scene. You made new friends because they saw you were friend worthy with your BFF; you go into lunch room and not know anyone and sit alone, it’s the scarlet letter. |
In theory, but core subjects drive the schedule, so it’s pretty similar to team groupings. Are all lunches the full grade? I thought few schools had capacity for that. |
Ok, not my kid's experience. He has different kids in all the things I mentioned above who are not in his team. |
Swanson has all grade lunches and I think Williamsburg does? Don't know about others. |
Teams doesn't mean all the kids in all of your classes are going to be the same. |
Yes, all grade lunch at Williamsburg. Also, at Williamsburg they typically do three or four PE classes at the same time so even though your child and friend may have different teachers, they can play together. |
How do they split the teams? 100% randomly or with some sort of M/F, racial, academic consideration? Do the teams stay the same for all 3 years? |
No, the teams do not stay together. I have no idea how they do it… We were new to our middle school last year, so our child made friends pretty much only their team. This year they were on the opposite team from literally all of their new friends, so they had to make new connections in class again. Not necessarily a bad thing, but it was unexpected. |
Yes, I understand. He has classes with kids not in his team. In the classes I mentioned above - math, his elective, PE, and his language - he has friends in his classes who are not in his team. Someone above is saying that the kids are in teams and then don't get to interact with other students much. It's as if there are separate schools within the school, the person said. Possibly it is that way at some APS middle schools but not ours. |