Dr wrote his personal email address on back of business card

Anonymous
Maybe. If you liked him, might be worth striking up a convo.

However he's always gonna meet ladies at work.
Anonymous
You need to go to another doctor. That's unprofessional.
Anonymous
A gynecologist shouldn't hit on his patients. It sketchy.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Yes, he’s interested in you.


Np.

This would be cool. Hope he’s not doing this to tons of women… worth an email if you’re available!
Anonymous
Are you interested? If so, find a NEW specialist so that there is no dr-patient relationship between you and handsome physician. After you've found a new specialist and scheduled an appt, email Dr and see what works out.

That's a lot of lead up to an email but I wouldn't email him while you still have the dr-patient relationship intact.
Anonymous
I don’t know..

If it really is his personal email I would think that means he is interested. But that seems unethical and unprofessional. If you are available and interested, send him a note and see what happens. But do plan on never using his for medical purposes again..

Also, don’t assume he isn’t married. Lots of Drs don’t wear wedding rings for various reasons.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I don’t know..

If it really is his personal email I would think that means he is interested. But that seems unethical and unprofessional. If you are available and interested, send him a note and see what happens. But do plan on never using his for medical purposes again..

Also, don’t assume he isn’t married. Lots of Drs don’t wear wedding rings for various reasons.


Neither me nor my husband have worn a wedding ring ever. My parents have also never worn wedding rings. For some people, it's just not a thing.

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You need to go to another doctor. That's unprofessional.


All he did was give his email address. Nothing else. That's not unprofessional.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Maybe. If you liked him, might be worth striking up a convo.

However he's always gonna meet ladies at work.


Always looking at the downside.
Anonymous
OP please clarify: Is this personal in like a gmail address or personal in like doctorsname @ practicename.com

If it's the first, he's interested. Get a new doctor and then contact him asking him out.

If it's the second it's kinda unclear. Make another appointment, spend some time on your hair, make lots of eye contact and read the vibe.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP please clarify: Is this personal in like a gmail address or personal in like doctorsname @ practicename.com

If it's the first, he's interested. Get a new doctor and then contact him asking him out.

If it's the second it's kinda unclear. Make another appointment, spend some time on your hair, make lots of eye contact and read the vibe.


Yep the first. The business card has his professional contact info. Then he flipped it over and with his pen wrote his personal @gmail address.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP please clarify: Is this personal in like a gmail address or personal in like doctorsname @ practicename.com

If it's the first, he's interested. Get a new doctor and then contact him asking him out.

If it's the second it's kinda unclear. Make another appointment, spend some time on your hair, make lots of eye contact and read the vibe.


Yep the first. The business card has his professional contact info. Then he flipped it over and with his pen wrote his personal @gmail address.


OP again. Since you mention eye contact, I would say that we had a lot of eye contact during the appointment…
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I don’t know..

If it really is his personal email I would think that means he is interested. But that seems unethical and unprofessional. If you are available and interested, send him a note and see what happens. But do plan on never using his for medical purposes again..

Also, don’t assume he isn’t married. Lots of Drs don’t wear wedding rings for various reasons.

My dr husband doesn't because he has to take them off in OR. He lost a couple of bands that way. So, esp for drs I wouldn't assume.
I would think he would have put a phone number if he was interested and not an email. This probably is just a means to communicate with him.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don’t know..

If it really is his personal email I would think that means he is interested. But that seems unethical and unprofessional. If you are available and interested, send him a note and see what happens. But do plan on never using his for medical purposes again..

Also, don’t assume he isn’t married. Lots of Drs don’t wear wedding rings for various reasons.

My dr husband doesn't because he has to take them off in OR. He lost a couple of bands that way. So, esp for drs I wouldn't assume.
I would think he would have put a phone number if he was interested and not an email. This probably is just a means to communicate with him.


Email is more low key. He's interested, but it seems benign enough that he won't get in trouble either, especially email.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:These posts come up all the time here. I wonder if this is the same person with a fixation, posting different variations again and again. It’s just so highly unlikely to happen.


+1. I was thinking the same. The sad poster keeps coming back and restart the same thread.
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