Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We average a few times a year. Anniversary, bdays vacation. I wish it was more but between anxiety meds and finding myself not as physically attracted to my wife as much as I used to, we just don't. In all honesty, I'd like to open up the marriage (with specific rules) but I know even starting that Convo would ruin us. I love her and the life we've created dearly so I just deal with it. Not a huge breaking point for me.
As a lesbian, this is something that I secretly have observed.
It sucks but most lesbians do not take care of themselves.