How do you refer to your husband with other kids?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:First name (if we know them well) or Larlo’s dad if we don’t.

+1.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A or D

I abhor the whole Mr./Miss First name convention. It reminds me of the conservative south. Disgusting.


Same. Hate it.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:First name (if we know them well) or Larlo’s dad if we don’t.

+1.


+2

Anonymous
First name or Larla's Dad. We answer to Mr./Ms. but don't promote it-- it's not part of my culture of origin so it feels weird to me. I teach my kids to address people as they wish to be addressed, and to ask the person if they are unsure.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A or D

I abhor the whole Mr./Miss First name convention. It reminds me of the conservative south. Disgusting.


that's an extreme reaction
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:As my kids get older I find myself referring to my husband a lot to other kids. And I’m always not sure how to refer to him? (We are married and are both Larlo’s parents)

A. “My husband is going to fix Larlo’s bike”
B. “John is going to fix Larlo’s bike” (they don’t know that Larlo’s dad is John though)
C. “Mr. John is going to fix Larlo’s bike”
D. “Larlo’s dad is going to fix Larlo’s bike”

All of them sound sort of awkward because they’re kids. Which do you use the most?


To other young children I say Mr. Last name and I am Mrs. Last name. To adult children, over 21, by our first names. I was brought up to always call parents of friends Mr./Mrs. I continued this until they ask me to call them by their first name.

Children need to respect older people. We had neighbors who were in their 80's and I called them Mr./Mrs.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A or D

I abhor the whole Mr./Miss First name convention. It reminds me of the conservative south. Disgusting.


You know nothing about the south.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:As my kids get older I find myself referring to my husband a lot to other kids. And I’m always not sure how to refer to him? (We are married and are both Larlo’s parents)

A. “My husband is going to fix Larlo’s bike”
B. “John is going to fix Larlo’s bike” (they don’t know that Larlo’s dad is John though)
C. “Mr. John is going to fix Larlo’s bike”
D. “Larlo’s dad is going to fix Larlo’s bike”

All of them sound sort of awkward because they’re kids. Which do you use the most?


To other young children I say Mr. Last name and I am Mrs. Last name. To adult children, over 21, by our first names. I was brought up to always call parents of friends Mr./Mrs. I continued this until they ask me to call them by their first name.

Children need to respect older people. We had neighbors who were in their 80's and I called them Mr./Mrs.


Children can respect adults WHILE calling them by their first names.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:As my kids get older I find myself referring to my husband a lot to other kids. And I’m always not sure how to refer to him? (We are married and are both Larlo’s parents)

A. “My husband is going to fix Larlo’s bike”
B. “John is going to fix Larlo’s bike” (they don’t know that Larlo’s dad is John though)
C. “Mr. John is going to fix Larlo’s bike”
D. “Larlo’s dad is going to fix Larlo’s bike”

All of them sound sort of awkward because they’re kids. Which do you use the most?


To other young children I say Mr. Last name and I am Mrs. Last name. To adult children, over 21, by our first names. I was brought up to always call parents of friends Mr./Mrs. I continued this until they ask me to call them by their first name.

Children need to respect older people. We had neighbors who were in their 80's and I called them Mr./Mrs.


Interesting. I was taught to respect adults by calling them “Miss Jane” and “mr John”. My married last name is hard to say as it’s Eastern European so I wouldn’t use it with little kids or toddlers.

My mom’s in-laws made her call them mr and mrs but it was a form of abuse. They didn’t see her as the same class as them.
Anonymous
C or D
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A or D

I abhor the whole Mr./Miss First name convention. It reminds me of the conservative south. Disgusting.


Referring to an entire section of the country as "disgusting" is quite the educated, mature response. Do better.
Anonymous
Dee Aitch
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A or D

I abhor the whole Mr./Miss First name convention. It reminds me of the conservative south. Disgusting.


Referring to an entire section of the country as "disgusting" is quite the educated, mature response. Do better.


Conservative South. Do better at reading comprehension, Trumper.

Sorry, I know them schools don't do-good nuff teachin' down there.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A or D

I abhor the whole Mr./Miss First name convention. It reminds me of the conservative south. Disgusting.


You know nothing about the south.


Wellllll, bless your ignorant heart.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A or D

I abhor the whole Mr./Miss First name convention. It reminds me of the conservative south. Disgusting.


Same. Viscerally hate it. My name is Emily no matter your age. If you must you can call me Ms Smith but I strongly prefer Emily.
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