Do they hate me?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not a dig at you. Just not tactful.

They’re not asking in front of OP. They are asking the children away from OP, and she’s eavesdropping and freaking out. It’s actually polite to ask after a child’s parent if you know them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have been with my partner for 12 years and we have a child together. He also has dc's with his ew wife. When we attend functions with his extended family, I often overhear his cousins asking the dc's about their mother. They also tell the dc's to let their mother know they asked about her. Am I being overly sensitive in thinking this is a dig at me?

The fact you call her "his ew wife" is very telling, spelling error or not.

Please get over yourself, OP. Everything is not about you 24/7.

[Anonymous]

OP get over yourself. I’m mid 30s, my parents have been divorced for 15 years, and both sides always politely ask about the ex. I think less of family that doesn’t say, “oh how’s your mom? Tell her hi!”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have been with my partner for 12 years and we have a child together. He also has dc's with his ew wife. When we attend functions with his extended family, I often overhear his cousins asking the dc's about their mother. They also tell the dc's to let their mother know they asked about her. Am I being overly sensitive in thinking this is a dig at me?

Never get involved with a divorced person if they have children.

+10000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have been with my partner for 12 years and we have a child together. He also has dc's with his ew wife. When we attend functions with his extended family, I often overhear his cousins asking the dc's about their mother. They also tell the dc's to let their mother know they asked about her. Am I being overly sensitive in thinking this is a dig at me?

Never get involved with a divorced person if they have children.

Well, that advice comes a little late for OP to use it. Got anything constructive and useful to say, PP?

[Anonymous]

Definitely think you are over sensitive. My brother is remarried; I still ask his kids from his first marriage about their mom… she was my SIL for many years. I ADORE his new wife too!

[Anonymous]

Are you upset that they’re acknowledging the other children or that they’re asking about their mom? I’m not sure if you’re okay with the children’s presence either. They must be a painful reminder that your DH has a past.

[Anonymous]

How can you be upset that they are asking kids about their mother? A divorce does not negate the mother-child relationship. She will always be a part of the family because of that connection.

[Anonymous]

It's not all about you, OP. It's not about you at all. And when he divorces you and has kids with the next wife, and family asks your kids how you are when they see them at events, it won't be about that wife either. It's always going to be about the kids.

[Anonymous]

WTF OP. You are being petty and immature.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have been with my partner for 12 years and we have a child together. He also has dc's with his ew wife. When we attend functions with his extended family, I often overhear his cousins asking the dc's about their mother. They also tell the dc's to let their mother know they asked about her. Am I being overly sensitive in thinking this is a dig at me?

With his "ew" wife. 🤣

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not a dig at you. Just not tactful.

How is it not tactful??
The cousin didn't say it in front of OP, she OVERHEARD them talking.

You and OP sure have a weird & skewed way of looking at positive intrafamilial relationships. 🙄

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have been with my partner for 12 years and we have a child together. He also has dc's with his ew wife. When we attend functions with his extended family, I often overhear his cousins asking the dc's about their mother. They also tell the dc's to let their mother know they asked about her. Am I being overly sensitive in thinking this is a dig at me?

Never get involved with a divorced person if they have children.

+10000

Sock pupetting is pathetic.

[Anonymous]

My, you're dramatic, OP.

Did you really just ask us if the relative "HATES" you, simply because they asked your step child how their mother is doing?

Why would you make that about you??

You're so dramatic & exhausting.

[Anonymous]

Yes, they hate you. Why? Because you are a nasty person as you reveled in you insane post.
They ask a kid about his mother as a dig at you. No other explanation in your own evil mind.