Hayden Pannetiere

[Anonymous]

I am always thankful for anyone willing to speak up about postpartum depression, which nearly killed me. I also commend her for realizing she wasn’t able to be a parent and not fighting her daughter’s father for custody when she wasn’t stable. I grew up in a family of addicts and see the hell it brings. Hopefully they can/do have a stable, productive relationship.

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Anonymous wrote:I’ll add, I’d care more if she appeared to make the same effort to be a mother as she does to promote her movie.

Are you this harsh on mothers who give their children up for adoption as well? There are some women who make a mistake in becoming mothers, and then try to rectify it. There’ll be more of them soon in the Republicans’ America.

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Anonymous wrote:I have no feelings about her, but I do appreciate it when celebrities discuss their struggles because it helps destigmatize things like addiction and domestic violence so that others recognize that it can happen to anyone and seeking help is important.

I don't think it destigmatizes things at all. I hate when someone famous acts like they're the first person to have a miscarriage and they're like "We have to TALLLLLLLLK about these things!" as if they haven't been talked about for decades. And when someone like Hayden announces her addiction I just kind of think "no shit lady; you think we couldn't tell?" I mean, this is the woman who gave custody of her daughter to her father and allowed her to be raised in a completely different country. Like, I didn't need a press release to know Kanye was bipolar - it was clear as day from his behaviors.

+1

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Anonymous wrote:I’ll add, I’d care more if she appeared to make the same effort to be a mother as she does to promote her movie.

Are you this harsh on mothers who give their children up for adoption as well? There are some women who make a mistake in becoming mothers, and then try to rectify it. There’ll be more of them soon in the Republicans’ America.

Totally different. She just stated in a People article that she didn’t want to be around her daughter. Her exact words. Her daughter will read this one day. People that give their children up for adoption don’t have access to them…she does. Stop making excuses for such a trash human.

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I just think she is lying still. She can’t seem to get rid of Brian. Why was she involved in a brawl a year ago with that loser? She admits he abused her but can’t get him out her system. But now it’s time to talk about it because she has a new project coming out. Very disingenuous. And dangerous, as she is still involved with that loser.

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Anonymous wrote:Just coming on here to post. Seems like an insensitive, entitled brat. Actually put in print she didn’t want to be around her daughter, then gave her up to her ex-husband to move to Ukraine.

She sucks, and I hope her movie flops.

+1,000

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Is her kid still in Ukraine?

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Anonymous wrote:Is her kid still in Ukraine?

I am guessing the child has dual citizenship since her mother is American, so hopefully she and her father are safe.

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Hayden completely abandoned motherhood. She is awful. She sent her child to live with her father in Ukraine! Instead of getting clean and sober. What a loser!

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ll add, I’d care more if she appeared to make the same effort to be a mother as she does to promote her movie.

Are you this harsh on mothers who give their children up for adoption as well? There are some women who make a mistake in becoming mothers, and then try to rectify it. There’ll be more of them soon in the Republicans’ America.

Totally different. She just stated in a People article that she didn’t want to be around her daughter. Her exact words. Her daughter will read this one day. People that give their children up for adoption don’t have access to them…she does. Stop making excuses for such a trash human.

Why is it different? People place their children up for adoption for all types of reasons. She had the awareness to realize at that point she could not be a parent her daughter and so she allowed the father to obtain custody. Would you have preferred that she kept her daughter and possibly harm her than relinquish custody to the father while she works getting better?

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Anonymous wrote:I just think she is lying still. She can’t seem to get rid of Brian. Why was she involved in a brawl a year ago with that loser? She admits he abused her but can’t get him out her system. But now it’s time to talk about it because she has a new project coming out. Very disingenuous. And dangerous, as she is still involved with that loser.

This is my take, too. She stayed with him even after he went to jail for domestic violence. She seems stuck in this abusive relationship. I wish her well and hope she is on the path to wellness but I'm dubious.

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Anonymous wrote:Hayden completely abandoned motherhood. She is awful. She sent her child to live with her father in Ukraine! Instead of getting clean and sober. What a loser!

As have many women before her, including Brigitte Bardot.

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Anonymous wrote:Hayden completely abandoned motherhood. She is awful. She sent her child to live with her father in Ukraine! Instead of getting clean and sober. What a loser!

Mothers and Fathers doing this every day. Even nes you know (but tell). How many men divorced dads out there in your circle that barely see there kids and have moved on to the next.

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^…ones that you know but don’t tell you about it…

Too early to be typing.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’ll add, I’d care more if she appeared to make the same effort to be a mother as she does to promote her movie.

Are you this harsh on mothers who give their children up for adoption as well? There are some women who make a mistake in becoming mothers, and then try to rectify it. There’ll be more of them soon in the Republicans’ America.

Totally different. She just stated in a People article that she didn’t want to be around her daughter. Her exact words. Her daughter will read this one day. People that give their children up for adoption don’t have access to them…she does. Stop making excuses for such a trash human.

Why is it different? People place their children up for adoption for all types of reasons. She had the awareness to realize at that point she could not be a parent her daughter and so she allowed the father to obtain custody. Would you have preferred that she kept her daughter and possibly harm her than relinquish custody to the father while she works getting better?

I don’t know anything about her, but if she was an addict in an abusive relationship, sending her child away from that situation sounds like the best parenting choice. I was abandoned by my father for a few years of my childhood, so I know that abandonment can leave a scar. But it’s not even close to the harm that would be caused by growing up amidst addiction and abuse.