Shocking divorices?

[Anonymous]

The wife was online dating and had multiple affairs—which was shocking because she projected a completely different persona to the world. SAHM and loving wife, super homemaker. She was big on social media with lovey dovey photos. It was a shock because it was a long marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A friend at work got pregnant by her boss. Her family is deeply religious and all of them are really nice, generous and caring people. She had two children already. She got divorced and her entire family cut her off. She is insanely close to her family during all the time I had known her. It was a shocking experience for me and I cannot imagine what they all went through.

Did she marry the boss

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A friend at work got pregnant by her boss. Her family is deeply religious and all of them are really nice, generous and caring people. She had two children already. She got divorced and her entire family cut her off. She is insanely close to her family during all the time I had known her. It was a shocking experience for me and I cannot imagine what they all went through.

That happened to me - I separated from my H and my entire family cut me off.

[Anonymous]

Mine

[Anonymous]

No, most divorced couples I know had lots of issues prior to divorce. However I’ve been surprised to learn when friends tell me they were previously married. I don’t find out until many years of knowing them and they seem to have strong marriages.

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Anonymous wrote:Not in my circle, but I’m still not over the Reese/Ryan divorce.

Ugh this one WAS heartbreaking!!

Do you mean Reese Witherspoon? That was ages ago, she got re-married, had a kid, and divorced since her marriage to Ryan.

It's not all that surprising since they were early 20s and only got married because Reese was pregnant.

She’s still married to the second husband.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A friend at work got pregnant by her boss. Her family is deeply religious and all of them are really nice, generous and caring people. She had two children already. She got divorced and her entire family cut her off. She is insanely close to her family during all the time I had known her. It was a shocking experience for me and I cannot imagine what they all went through.

That happened to me - I separated from my H and my entire family cut me off.

Did you also get pregnant by your boss?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A friend at work got pregnant by her boss. Her family is deeply religious and all of them are really nice, generous and caring people. She had two children already. She got divorced and her entire family cut her off. She is insanely close to her family during all the time I had known her. It was a shocking experience for me and I cannot imagine what they all went through.

She had to have been really fed up with her husband/family to decide to keep the baby. Or have a few screws loose.

Why would a mother of two kids blow up her life like that?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A friend at work got pregnant by her boss. Her family is deeply religious and all of them are really nice, generous and caring people. She had two children already. She got divorced and her entire family cut her off. She is insanely close to her family during all the time I had known her. It was a shocking experience for me and I cannot imagine what they all went through.

She had to have been really fed up with her husband/family to decide to keep the baby. Or have a few screws loose.

Why would a mother of two kids blow up her life like that?

Ask Sheree Burton

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/steve-burton-sheree-gustin-child-is-not-mine_n_62739587e4b009a811bf8315/amp

[Anonymous]

Anytime someone "comes out" as part of their divorce it is shocking. In hindsight, it ends up explaining a lot.

[Anonymous]

A good friend of mine got divorced and it was shocking to me because that marriage always seemed the strongest in my circle. I have known this friend for 25 years and they had been married for almost 20 years.
The couple had all these inside jokes, common interests, co-parented well, had no money issues, and seemed genuinely tight. The husband had a long-term affair and the marriage imploded when the wife found out. As I came to learn about the situation, I realized that there was a lot I didn't know about that marriage and the couple had been slowly drifting apart for years and had conflicts that my friend never mentioned. You just never know what's going on in someone else's marriage.

[Anonymous]

I’m shocked by every divorce I know in real life. I never see them coming, naively believe that people who act like a couple in public are doing fine.

[Anonymous]

My FIL’s best friend was always so lovey dovey with his wife, and laid the PDA on so thick that we were all shocked when he was revealed to be having an affair. He left her for his AP so suddenly and coldly.

[Anonymous]

There’s no suck thing as a “shocking” divorce when literally half of marriages in this country fail.

That’s like saying you experienced a “shocking” loss of the $100 bill you put into a slot machine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m shocked by every divorce I know in real life. I never see them coming, naively believe that people who act like a couple in public are doing fine.

Same.