| I am at a poorer high school. I hear the n-word all the time. Mostly from black students who have grown up in generational poverty. But a lot of Hispanic boys use it as well if they are lower SES. It has been confusing to me to hear a Hispanic boy call an Asian boy the N-word. The kids say it is all about context. I tell them that if they use that word around people that don’t know them they are making a big mistake and will be judged harshly by most people. |
1000% agreed. Moreover, PPs are using a thread about bad behaviour at a mostly-white school to crap on predominantly BIPOC schools. It's like no conversation can be allowed to focus on the bad behavior of white children and must always be redirected to be about some imagined behavior by Black or Hispanic kids. |
If you don't see the difference between a privileged white kid using the N-word as a racial slur and lower-income Black kids using it to refer to their friends and acquaintances, I don't know what to tell you. |
I'm the poster you are calling out. I understand feelings may be hurt when facts are baldly stated like this, but there is value in telling the truth. W schools are ripped apart on DCUM anytime there is the least incident, racial or otherwise, not because people actually care about the incidents, but because wealthy districts are popular targets for criticism. Posters are happy to virtue signal if higher-income white and asian families can be blamed in the process. I also understand your point about how self-reinforcing certain facts can impact student/staff motivation and initiative, but that's called life. You can't pretend some schools are higher-performing than they actually are, just to protect certain people's self-esteem. On the contrary, you challenge them to do better - that's how you build resilience. One of my children has special needs and needs to work 10 times as hard as the average student to get the same grade, so we know all about resilience in this family. There is no coded language in what I'm saying, BTW. We are a mixed-race family who moved from Silver Spring to Bethesda, for a better education. I know what I'm talking about, and my experience appears to be more recent than yours. |
Oh, yes. Folks with anti-Black rhetoric always love inserting in a later post that they are "not white" or "in a mixed race relationship." It's so common that we should put it on the DCUM bingo card. The woe is me language about how hard it is to attend a W school is just icing on the cake of this post. |
Reading comprehension is critical. You're "ripped apart" for those incidents because it's the culture of your school, not because it's popular to do so. When your school is criticized, it'll still be fine because parents and families will still be clamoring to go there. Whenever a little thing happens at a mostly minority-school everyone will quickly jump to arms and say "I KNEW that would happen at xyz place!" or "That's why I'd never send my kids there". This forum "virtue-signals" more in terms of denigrating BIPOC. Multiple subsequent replies have agreed with me: once an impression is made of a school, it's hard to shake, which is why we as a county have consistently struggled with redlining, consortias, etc. I'm not trying to protect certain ppl's self-esteem, and I am sorry about your child's special needs. As someone who, again, moved from the East side to the West side, there were people who would avoid me when I mentioned what neighborhood I came from or would express how "unsafe" it is. I'd really appreciate not being spoken to with such an insulting tone on your end just because we disagree and I went through what I endured from the lens of a person of color, because I graduated from that W school 3 years ago. I firmly stand by my comment, whether it makes you feel defensive or not. |
Why are you sabotaging the thread. People are trying to learn about one WJ incident, that is all. Start your own thread if you feel the W schools are unfairly bashed |
WOW! This is absolutely NOT true!!! Don't believe everything you hear. |
| ^^ this. Those who know, know the truth, and those who don't continue with unnecessary and u true gossip. People will make any excuse to bash a W school, even if what they are saying is an outright LIE |
What actually happened? |
What happens in Ws stays in Ws. |
+1000 |
I didn't post the "Fecal matter and urine in the hallways", but to be fair there was cat feces put in a sink of one of the girl's bathrooms. Not sure why anyone would find that funny, I'm sure the custodial staff didn't. |
| The school paper has an article about what happened, for those interested. |
| I believe a large group of students entered the building one evening when the building was open for other activities - I also heard a version where a door was propped open. The students then proceeded to vandalize the building, including hallways and many classrooms. This apparently included general vandalism, throwing stuff around and generally messing up the place, as well as distributing various "substances" on doorknobs and in bathroom sinks. I've heard that that substances included hot dogs, chili, urine, and feces. I also heard that one person working in the building at the time was shoved and injured. |