I’m sorry your country was invaded…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m the OP. The previous link is not me. Butctfabhs fur jumping to that conclusion.

DW needs psychological help. Yes, her family members in Ukraine are under fire and she worries about them, but that does but give her the right to kick it ge metaphorical dog. I had simply wanted to get BBQ for my birthday abs she freaked out about “how can I think about celebrating” in a war. Well, Ukraine is not the only war - look at the suffering in Yemen or Ethiopia. They are my getting the sympathy the Western news coverage gets, so we could celebrate your birthday? I’ll let that go now, but she stepped over the line when she told me “I hope your b***tch mother dies soon. I’ll be sure to dance on her grave.” I no longer have any compassion for her.

Then divorce her. You will both be better off.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes people who are depressed can’t get themselves the help they need. Can you help get her to a therapist?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sometimes people who are depressed can’t get themselves the help they need. Can you help get her to a therapist?

This, OP. She sounds like she is having a mental health crisis. It's not your fault, but you aren't going to get her out of it by comparing her family's war to Yemen or wherever. You should be able to get bbq without her melting down over it, though, so she does need to see a dr.

[Anonymous]

Is she a mail order bride? Because I can’t imagine she chose to marry you.

[Anonymous]

Life goes on. Worrying is about as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum.

[Anonymous]

So OP’s DW is justified in telling him she will dance a celebratory dance on his mother’s grave? I don’t care who you are or what emotional stress you are under, that is vile and requires an apology.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m the OP. The previous link is not me. Butctfabhs fur jumping to that conclusion.

DW needs psychological help. Yes, her family members in Ukraine are under fire and she worries about them, but that does but give her the right to kick it ge metaphorical dog. I had simply wanted to get BBQ for my birthday abs she freaked out about “how can I think about celebrating” in a war. Well, Ukraine is not the only war - look at the suffering in Yemen or Ethiopia. They are my getting the sympathy the Western news coverage gets, so we could celebrate your birthday? I’ll let that go now, but she stepped over the line when she told me “I hope your b***tch mother dies soon. I’ll be sure to dance on her grave.” I no longer have any compassion for her.

You may not know it, but you’re getting divorced soon.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So OP’s DW is justified in telling him she will dance a celebratory dance on his mother’s grave? I don’t care who you are or what emotional stress you are under, that is vile and requires an apology.

So is whining for birthday bbq when your family is in harms way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So OP’s DW is justified in telling him she will dance a celebratory dance on his mother’s grave? I don’t care who you are or what emotional stress you are under, that is vile and requires an apology.

I think it just shows how hurt she was by his preoccupations and priorities.
I don't see this relationship surviving.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So OP’s DW is justified in telling him she will dance a celebratory dance on his mother’s grave? I don’t care who you are or what emotional stress you are under, that is vile and requires an apology.

So is whining for birthday bbq when your family is in harms way.

What are you supposed to do? Just sit and watch the news constantly? You might as well go get bbq.

[Anonymous]

Wtf dude? How can you celebrate when her entire country is being invaded?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m the OP. The previous link is not me. Butctfabhs fur jumping to that conclusion.

DW needs psychological help. Yes, her family members in Ukraine are under fire and she worries about them, but that does but give her the right to kick it ge metaphorical dog. I had simply wanted to get BBQ for my birthday abs she freaked out about “how can I think about celebrating” in a war. Well, Ukraine is not the only war - look at the suffering in Yemen or Ethiopia. They are my getting the sympathy the Western news coverage gets, so we could celebrate your birthday? I’ll let that go now, but she stepped over the line when she told me “I hope your b***tch mother dies soon. I’ll be sure to dance on her grave.” I no longer have any compassion for her.

Sorry, but no, we don't believe you. You aren't as anonymous in your writing as you think you are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m the OP. The previous link is not me. Butctfabhs fur jumping to that conclusion.

DW needs psychological help. Yes, her family members in Ukraine are under fire and she worries about them, but that does but give her the right to kick it ge metaphorical dog. I had simply wanted to get BBQ for my birthday abs she freaked out about “how can I think about celebrating” in a war. Well, Ukraine is not the only war - look at the suffering in Yemen or Ethiopia. They are my getting the sympathy the Western news coverage gets, so we could celebrate your birthday? I’ll let that go now, but she stepped over the line when she told me “I hope your b***tch mother dies soon. I’ll be sure to dance on her grave.” I no longer have any compassion for her.

Sorry, but no, we don't believe you. You aren't as anonymous in your writing as you think you are.

Or there are just loads of Ukrainian women in DMV with terrible husbands who have zero compassion and humanity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So OP’s DW is justified in telling him she will dance a celebratory dance on his mother’s grave? I don’t care who you are or what emotional stress you are under, that is vile and requires an apology.

He already said he didn’t care if her family died, so I’d call them even.

And his mother probably said something to warrant the comment anyway.

[Anonymous]

I didn’t read anywhere that he didn’t care. Where is that?