What's the best way to bring up the "DTR" talk?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ugh. All of these responses are catering to what your boyfriend thinks feels or intends.

OP, do you want to go out on a date with somebody else? Do you feel that you want to keep your options open? Do you feel entitled to date as many people as you would like until YOU are ready to define the relationship??

The responses on this post sound like they are from 1951.

This.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've been seeing someone for 8 weeks. A friend texted me last night asking if I was still single because there's a guy she wants to set me up with. I genuinely wasn't sure how to answer and want to bring it up with the guy, but don't want to freak him out.

Any tips for how to go about the "Define the Relationship" conversation?

Follow @thelovedrive He offers scripts for such things. You say, "Hey, I would like to _____ (be exclusive,, see others, etc) How do you feel about it?" You don't ask, you say what you want and see what he wants!

[Anonymous]

Do you think this guy goes on dates and worries about you? I don’t think so. Plus it’s still too early to decide whether you want to be exclusive. Your options are still open so take advantage of that and see if you like the new guy more.

He’s keeping his options open in case he meets someone “better”, you do the same.