That actually made me tear up. Nora delivered my first and Hannah delivered my second. |
I’ve spent the last 2 years researching a lot, prepping, talking to many people, etc. my c section was super traumatic and I know it’s possible for me to have another one and that’s okay cause all that matters is getting my baby here healthy and safe and at least now I know going in what to expect but there’s plenty of risks with both c sections and vaginal births and if I can avoid another c csection I will 100% try to do so. I’m pretty much set on attempting a vbac, no matter what the outcomes are of that. I mean before my first, that’s what came to mind when I thought of birth. I appreciate the thought of trying to be transparent about possibilities during a vaginal birth but I know what I’m aiming for. |
It sounds like you’re very emotionally invested in having a successful “healing” VBAC. That is not surprising given your previous traumatic delivery. But birth is an uncontrollable process. Have you addressed the trauma of your previous delivery? Have you considered that a planned C section could be an empowering and beautiful way to give birth? All modes of delivery can be traumatic, but you generally can control more variables with a planned C section than a VBAC attempt. Just a thought to consider. |
I delivered both my kids with the midwives and they are excellent and very supportive but I’ve had a few appointments with the OBs here and there for scheduling reasons. They work very closely together and GW in general is very supportive of vaginal birth in general so I don’t think you’ll get a lot of pressure to do a C section even if you continue with the OBs. Good luck and I hope things go well this time! |
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Recently delivered when the midwife was not available at night. The OB team at GW was phenomenal! I was able to have a VBAC, felt respected and safe.
The hard part was for me was learning to trust people I had not met before but they were were amazing! |
I had a VBAC with the GW OBs - it hadn’t even been on my radar and the OB asked if I wanted it during one of my first appointments. It was twins so I had assumed I would need a c-section. Have birth at GW with successful VBAC and no pressure to have a C in 2017 |
Have you considered that a VBAC could be an empowering and beautiful way to give birth? I felt for my own birth experience that it was important to work through labor & delivery trauma before making the decision to become pregnant again, as I’m aware that I’m not impervious to the chance of experiencing another c section. It’s a very real possibility and one that I’ve accepted. But that doesn’t negate the fact that I want to attempt a vaginal birth? Repeat c sections carry many risks that go up with every subsequent c section, some more concerning than the ones of a vaginal birth. There have been plenty of comparative studies looking at these risks and risk of uterine rupture with a VBAC is less than 1%. As I said, if I can avoid another major surgery I will absolute try. Not sure if a negative birth experience is causing you to sound very against vaginal births and I’m sorry if that is the case but I’m prepared to take on whatever happens as I know what I’ve chosen to take on. |
Oh that’s awesome to hear! Thanks so much! I feel like often times OBs tend to push c sections without taking other approaches before getting to that point. I’ve heard so many women feel they were rushed through their labor or pressured to schedule c sections. If a c section is what someone wants, that’s great! But when it’s not, that’s where the support is needed. Glad to know the OBs there are more supportive than most! |
That beautiful VBAC you’re envisioning can also be extremely traumatic and involve forceps, vacuum, episiotomy, and hours of agonizing pushing. Not to mention fun things on the other side like incontinence, prolapse, and sexual function issues. No easy way to give birth and certainly C sections have risks but not nearly as inflated as what you’re saying unless you are planning to have like 6 kids. I’m not against vaginal births but I don’t like how women with traumatic C sections are made to feel like their birth needs to be “healed” by an empowering VBAC when the reality is there’s no way to guarantee your VBAC will be uncomplicated and won’t injure you. |
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FYI on website as of 4/28
Dear Patients, The department of Obstetrics and Gynecology is currently unable to accept new patients for obstetrics care as well as annual gynecological visits. We apologize for this inconvenience. We plan to be able to offer new patient services again in the upcoming months. Thank you for your patience and understanding, and for putting your trust in our care. The GW Medical Faculty Associates Department of OBGYN |
| Midwife patient here. I just VBAC’d (is that a verb?) with the OB team and they were fan-f’ing-tastic. I had a hemorrhage after delivery and felt very taken care of. My doula told me that it was the best possible care. |
| Hate the midwives. Google their reviews |
Not surprising at all. The MFA is crumbling across multiple departments. |
| Residencies typically end in the May/June time frame, so I would anticipate that MFA has some new OBGYN attendings lined up to the practice over the summer or by fall. |
I cannot think of anything less that I would want for my birth than a line-up of brand new attending physicians with little experience. |