And you think that a week when they’re already dealing with the major disappointment of having a vacation they were looking forward to be canceled at the last minute is a good time to drive home this lesson? |
| the science museum is Baltimore is pretty cool. adventure park in sandy spring is fun and 3 -4 hours. |
It's why kids grow up to be delicate snowflakes who don't know how to deal with disappointment. |
My guess is one parent has to work, but the other is free. |
| We had to cancel for other reasons. Your ideas are good. For mine, they also like unlimited time to binge on electronics. I mean, it’s their vacation so why not let them do that a little with extra junk food at home. We have some similar type day trips planned too. One of us is free and the other can’t come. |
If this is the case why can’t the rest of the family still go on the vacation as planned? |
I certainly hope you aren’t ever one of my kid’s teachers |
I wouldn’t want to as a single parent. Way more work. No rest and relaxation for me if I don’t have my spouse to take over parenting duties on vacation. |
Also, what if that results in the family not being to take a trip all together perhaps @ summer or winter break, if one spouse used up vacation time or budget? Kind of mean. Sounds like your kids will have some fun options, OP. I like the idea of letting each kid (and you!) set the agenda for one day, then adding in one or 2 extras. |
Sounds like one parent is using PTO for this staycation anyway. Better to go solo than wait around for a vacation together that never comes. That is how it has been with my spouse. Get everyone ramped up to go and then oops, can’t go. |
| Let each child pick a dinner out of their choice. |
It depends on the type of trip & the parent’s preference. For example, I will take my kids on some trips without DH, but if it’s a camping trip, we cancel if he cannot go because I don’t want to take them camping alone. |
NP. We thought about this but changed our mind because reviews said in April they are crowded and half the rides are not open and the water park is closed. |
| OP, we are just planning to do go to DC and see some museums - Natural History, Air and Space and maybe the Capitol building. |
| Same thing happened to us. My kids are younger so maybe not a lot of overlap in activity ideas. But I think the caverns are a great idea. Shenandoah is one of the closer to DC ones. |