Am I retarded?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:you ppl crack me up, i'm middle-eastern and there is no pc police around when colleagues, classmates, random people at a party make totally insensitive racial remarks. but the second, someone drops the R-bomb, a brawl breaks out.


So, you find offense when people say those things about you...but you won't bother to defend the truly defenseless. Priceless.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:you ppl crack me up, i'm middle-eastern and there is no pc police around when colleagues, classmates, random people at a party make totally insensitive racial remarks. but the second, someone drops the R-bomb, a brawl breaks out.


So, you find offense when people say those things about you...but you won't bother to defend the truly defenseless. Priceless.


I am defenseless, if I start going around my office creating a scene everytime someone asks me if a bombing suspect is a relative or if my marriage was arranged, I'm not going to have a job much longer. mentally and physically challenged individuals have great champions for their cause, who do I have?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:you ppl crack me up, i'm middle-eastern and there is no pc police around when colleagues, classmates, random people at a party make totally insensitive racial remarks. but the second, someone drops the R-bomb, a brawl breaks out.


So, you find offense when people say those things about you...but you won't bother to defend the truly defenseless. Priceless.


I am defenseless, if I start going around my office creating a scene everytime someone asks me if a bombing suspect is a relative or if my marriage was arranged, I'm not going to have a job much longer. mentally and physically challenged individuals have great champions for their cause, who do I have?


You have a mouth and an HR department. Quit playing the hapless victim.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Whoa. OP used the word in a self-deprecating way - it wasn't as if she was calling someone with a disability retarded. I found it humorous.


You really just don't get it.
Anonymous
this entire thread is retarded
Anonymous
Calling a situation retarded is entirely different than calling a person (who is mentally/physically challenged) retarded. I hear people say this all the time, and I say it myself, and really, its not that big of a deal. People need to lighten up.
Anonymous
This is cracking me up.
Anonymous
i could be wrong, but i think it's an age thing. i'm 28 and all of my friends just throw this word around. maybe older folks are a bit more sensitive to its usage. i kind of compare it to when people say "that's so gay" even my gay friends say that. i think ppl with disabled children are a bit more sensitive, just like fertility challenged ppl are more sensitive to various comments.
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