Going to a house on a second date

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I sort of understand your friend , it seems like he's working you into the Netflix and chill lane.
This may or may not be accurate, but that's probably what she's thinking.
Go if you want to and feel safe enough to do so.

Yep, this is exactly what she’s thinking. But we are both single parents and exhausted, so I sort of get it. If it keeps getting to that tho, I’m out.

[Anonymous]

So as a guy, I’m kind of curious how going to a dude’s house on the 3rd, 4th, or 5th date somehow makes it safer.

I totally get the safety concerns. But after a successful first date, if he’s a serial killer putting on a front, wouldn’t he just keep up the front for another date or two?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So as a guy, I’m kind of curious how going to a dude’s house on the 3rd, 4th, or 5th date somehow makes it safer.

I totally get the safety concerns. But after a successful first date, if he’s a serial killer putting on a front, wouldn’t he just keep up the front for another date or two?[/quote
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So crime channels on YouTube are a bit of my obsession and based on what I have learned no he may not keep up the pretense totally depends on the killer. Some the first date others the second date is murder date.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I sort of understand your friend , it seems like he's working you into the Netflix and chill lane.
This may or may not be accurate, but that's probably what she's thinking.
Go if you want to and feel safe enough to do so.

Yep, this is exactly what she’s thinking. But we are both single parents and exhausted, so I sort of get it. If it keeps getting to that tho, I’m out.

Seems like you got a plan. So go and enjoy!

Given the additional information my concern would be he had the kids that night and is trying to work in a date too.

I'm not into dating with the kids at home , but you might feel differently.

[Anonymous]

Nope. Too early.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I sort of understand your friend , it seems like he's working you into the Netflix and chill lane.
This may or may not be accurate, but that's probably what she's thinking.
Go if you want to and feel safe enough to do so.

Yep, this is exactly what she’s thinking. But we are both single parents and exhausted, so I sort of get it. If it keeps getting to that tho, I’m out.

Seems like you got a plan. So go and enjoy!

Given the additional information my concern would be he had the kids that night and is trying to work in a date too.

I'm not into dating with the kids at home , but you might feel differently.

No, no kids in the house. That is a hard rule for me. Don’t even care if kids are asleep and won’t wake up. If kids are there, I’m not.