Dating site/app recommendation

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Mid 40's male here. Two kids. No interest in getting married but want an LTR. I'm currently using Hinge and Bumble.

Tried Tinder, but that's a shit show.

Out of curiosity, do you have your filter set to date women also in their mid-40s. On these apps, it seems like the men in their 40s want to date younger women and the men dating women in their 40s are 50s-60s. I want to date men my age...but can't find any.

What is your profile like? I’m 46, my range is 34-54. I prefer to date men in the 38-45 range, I have many matches. I’d review your profile

OP - so PP, you use Bumble and Hinge?

[Anonymous]

47 year old male. Divorced. 3 kids. My favorite app was Match. It might be different for women but everyone I’ve met on match has been normal, fun, and interesting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here - thank you PP. It's not like I am looking for a husband, but I don't think I would have much in common with guys in their 30s with no kids....so looking for a site where I can find guys who probably already had kids and are 40s/50s.

There are plenty on Bumble and Match. My ExH uses Elite Singles (y’all can have him). I have also heard of Hinge and the League but I only use Bumble. I prefer to date late 30s men without kids or ex wives, personally. I do not need more complications. Also, despite being married for 10 years, I do not feel like I was ever married. It was not normal in any way so I do not feel disconnected with men who have never married. I have kids but I leave them out of it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:47 year old male. Divorced. 3 kids. My favorite app was Match. It might be different for women but everyone I’ve met on match has been normal, fun, and interesting.

OP here - thanks!

[Anonymous]

I'm 52 and on Hinge. You can set it so you only see men in certain ages, heights etc..

I've had good luck. I have a coffee date today.

[Anonymous]

hinge and bumble, the rest are a waste of time and sometimes money.

-a singe man with kids

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:47 year old male. Divorced. 3 kids. My favorite app was Match. It might be different for women but everyone I’ve met on match has been normal, fun, and interesting.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a 50yo mom on Hinge and I find it to be pretty young. Most of the guys who like me are under 32.

I'm late 50s and use Hinge because it's younger. I've done reasonably well there.

[Anonymous]

OP here - thanks everyone and good luck to you!

[Anonymous]

44 year old single mom here. I've found that its all pretty much all the same people on match, tinder, and bumble. I've gotten the best quality matches on bumble.

Some tips:
Entrepreneur = unemployed
Netflix and chill does not mean watch a movie and hang out
Meet dates for coffee or drinks before committing to a full date.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m a 50yo mom on Hinge and I find it to be pretty young. Most of the guys who like me are under 32.

I'm late 50s and use Hinge because it's younger. I've done reasonably well there.

Are you a man or woman? I’ve only matched w/ scammers. I’m 57 F

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:hinge and bumble, the rest are a waste of time and sometimes money.

-a singe man with kids

54 y.o. woman here, with a college kid and not looking to remarry.

Q for PP single man ... would you say Match is now a waste of time? If so, why? have been off apps for 2 years, so

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m a 50yo mom on Hinge and I find it to be pretty young. Most of the guys who like me are under 32.

I'm late 50s and use Hinge because it's younger. I've done reasonably well there.

Do you post videos or just pics? The instagrammers are in full force there

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m a 50yo mom on Hinge and I find it to be pretty young. Most of the guys who like me are under 32.

I'm late 50s and use Hinge because it's younger. I've done reasonably well there.

Are you a man or woman? I’ve only matched w/ scammers. I’m 57 F

Man. I post photos, not all of them are recent enough. I also post voice greetings, which seem to go over well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:44 year old single mom here. I've found that its all pretty much all the same people on match, tinder, and bumble. I've gotten the best quality matches on bumble.

Some tips:
Entrepreneur = unemployed
Netflix and chill does not mean watch a movie and hang out
Meet dates for coffee or drinks before committing to a full date.

OP here - thanks!