Dating site/app recommendation

[Anonymous]

hello,
50 year old single mom of two kids here.
Which dating site/app would you recommend? Not looking for a fling or one-night stand. Should I use a match-maker? Did you have good luck finding quality / available guys on any of the sites or apps? Thanks!

[Anonymous]

My experience finding a boyfriend has been good…but I am not looking to cohabitate or remarry. Mid 40s, two kids

[Anonymous]

thanks PP, but I was asking for recommendation on specific sites/ apps to use. Which one have you been using?

[Anonymous]

Mid 40's male here. Two kids. No interest in getting married but want an LTR. I'm currently using Hinge and Bumble.

Tried Tinder, but that's a shit show.

[Anonymous]

Male here. 50s.

I was happy with Match. I had less success with Bumble and OK Cupid. Avoid Tinder. You know little to nothing about the person you are “swiping” on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mid 40's male here. Two kids. No interest in getting married but want an LTR. I'm currently using Hinge and Bumble.

Tried Tinder, but that's a shit show.

Out of curiosity, do you have your filter set to date women also in their mid-40s. On these apps, it seems like the men in their 40s want to date younger women and the men dating women in their 40s are 50s-60s. I want to date men my age...but can't find any.

[Anonymous]

I like Hinge. Tinder is OK but you need to weed out the crazy people.

[Anonymous]

OP here - thanks for the tips. Did not know about hinge, will check it out.

[Anonymous]

I’m a 50yo mom on Hinge and I find it to be pretty young. Most of the guys who like me are under 32.

[Anonymous]

OP, thanks PP, yeah well I am not looking for 32 year olds. So, match might be a better fit for me?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:thanks PP, but I was asking for recommendation on specific sites/ apps to use. Which one have you been using?

I only use Bumble. I use the incognito mode so people can't see me unless I want them to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Mid 40's male here. Two kids. No interest in getting married but want an LTR. I'm currently using Hinge and Bumble.

Tried Tinder, but that's a shit show.

Out of curiosity, do you have your filter set to date women also in their mid-40s. On these apps, it seems like the men in their 40s want to date younger women and the men dating women in their 40s are 50s-60s. I want to date men my age...but can't find any.

I am the PP who was the first responder in this post who is mid-40s. I have not found men wanting to date younger women. However, I date men in their late 30s. I don't date my age or older. There is no need when I can date younger men. I am not interested in remarriage. I look like I am in my 30s, so maybe that helps, but I literally have not found a lack of men in 30s or 40s to date nor have I experienced them wanting to date younger at all.

[Anonymous]

OP here - thank you PP. It's not like I am looking for a husband, but I don't think I would have much in common with guys in their 30s with no kids....so looking for a site where I can find guys who probably already had kids and are 40s/50s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Mid 40's male here. Two kids. No interest in getting married but want an LTR. I'm currently using Hinge and Bumble.

Tried Tinder, but that's a shit show.

Out of curiosity, do you have your filter set to date women also in their mid-40s. On these apps, it seems like the men in their 40s want to date younger women and the men dating women in their 40s are 50s-60s. I want to date men my age...but can't find any.

What is your profile like? I’m 46, my range is 34-54. I prefer to date men in the 38-45 range, I have many matches. I’d review your profile

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:thanks PP, but I was asking for recommendation on specific sites/ apps to use. Which one have you been using?

I only use Bumble. I use the incognito mode so people can't see me unless I want them to.

Me too!! -45 yo woman, kids, won’t remarry.