So tell them no! Come on, kids don’t get the final say in these types of things. It cost money, it requires you to commit more time driving. Less time away from the family. You say “pick one” and that’s it. |
OP I have a kid like yours (it sounds like). And listen to your gut. This one kid of mine is different than my others - driven, hyper, competitive... special. Super involved academically and really committed to swimming at a young age. He is a good swimmer, not a great one. A super star in the summer and decent in club. But the LOVE of it is something else and has been that way since he was 8. I wish I had had something at that age that I loved like that. So I would say go for it. When your kid needs a day off or decided it is too much, say okay. Kids swim for club and high school and club and summer teams all of the time. |
Yes crazy |
Okay, I'll bite, aside from time/money, you have two coaches who don't communicate potentially telling your swimmer two different things. Maybe one coach prefers your swimmer to length out their stroke while the other just wants them to turn over quickly. How is your 9/10 year old going to navigate that? I had a girl who swam for two different teams and in the end I had to ask her to pick one, because what the other coach was doing was the total opposite of what I wanted her to do, and her progress and meet results were suffering because she ended up doing a mix of both which wasn't good. |
Most everyone does this: club team, summer team, and HS team. Coaches know and encourage it, especially the summer swimming since it is FUN! Two different club teams is different, though. |
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Usually club teams have up to 6 practices a week. How can you even fit in another club team?
I do know one child who did it at a younger age to hold his spot at one team while temporarily swimming at another. It was a complicated situation and had to do with parents' work and siblings. |
Yes crazy and pointless. IT's not like baseketball or baseball. You barely talk during swim practice anyway. |