Would you be okay if your spouse removed you from their FaceBook account?

[Anonymous]

Interesting how most replies seem to assume the spouse is a man. What is the spouse is the wife?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Interesting how most replies seem to assume the spouse is a man. What is the spouse is the wife?

Literally no one assumed the spouse was a man.

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Anonymous wrote:People with FB friend deleting drama are IMO mentally ill. I think mental illness reveals itself so clearly on social media. I’d be worried about that.

Agreed. It is a sign of mental illness. Normal people do not do things like this.

Social media is awful in general, but it is helpful in identifying unstable people. Back when I was on Facebook, I had “real life” friends who’d constantly delete me and then try to re-add me. Those people are no longer friends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My spouse and I don’t have Facebook accounts. And if he were to suddenly get one at his age, I’d find it weird.

So then why post?

[Anonymous]

I blocked my husband. I can’t remember why. Anyway, I live with the guy. I don’t need to follow him online. He’s not even active in FB. Your spouse doesn’t need to know everything about you. At least I’m not tagging him and Bragg about my love for him.

[Anonymous]

Facebook is on the decline anyway

[Anonymous]

I don’t have an FB but if my DH removed me as a follower on Instagram and unfollowed me I would think, at best, he was being ridiculous and immature and, at worst, he was trying to hide something.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I blocked my husband. I can’t remember why. Anyway, I live with the guy. I don’t need to follow him online. He’s not even active in FB. Your spouse doesn’t need to know everything about you. At least I’m not tagging him and Bragg about my love for him.

These kinds of responses are wild to me. I had an on again/off again boyfriend in college and we fought and unfriended or blocked each other once or twice but why do this in a mature, adult relationship? I think sometimes there is a generational component? How old are you?

[Anonymous]

My husband and I married young and have been fb friends since high school. Even when we were young and stupid we didn’t delete or block each other. If he did this now I would assume he had lost his mind or was having an affair. That’s just really bizarre behavior.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband and I married young and have been fb friends since high school. Even when we were young and stupid we didn’t delete or block each other. If he did this now I would assume he had lost his mind or was having an affair. That’s just really bizarre behavior.

+1. I’m 33. The only people I know that did this were dramatic/immature very young couples in their teens and maybe very early 20s

[Anonymous]

If he's trolling on FB, pretending he's single then he's having a mid-life crisis. Boy BYE!!! Nothing but old people and people past their prime posting thirst trap pics because their lives are boring.

Let him have his FB page and you go and get your "something" private as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I blocked my husband. I can’t remember why. Anyway, I live with the guy. I don’t need to follow him online. He’s not even active in FB. Your spouse doesn’t need to know everything about you. At least I’m not tagging him and Bragg about my love for him.

Really? So it's okay for a husband to block his wife on FaceBook? It's also okay for her not to know everything about him or what he's doing on FaceBook? Just confirming...

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Anonymous wrote:Interesting how most replies seem to assume the spouse is a man. What is the spouse is the wife?

Literally no one assumed the spouse was a man.

lol

[Anonymous]

I unfollowed mine and just looked at his page. The man is deep in his government conspiracies. Glad they stay on FB and not in my life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I unfollowed mine and just looked at his page. The man is deep in his government conspiracies. Glad they stay on FB and not in my life.

Yikes