Would you be okay if your spouse removed you from their FaceBook account?

[Anonymous]

Had this discussion with a group of friends today. One of them had a bad argument a few months ago with their spouse. They only recently noticed on FB they are no longer friends and on the spouse's page it shows nothing for relationship status. My friend doesn't use FB often so it wasn't noticed until today. But, what are people's thoughts on this? They are fine now. But, should YOU be okay with your spouse removing you from their FB page and changing their relationship status to "none"?

[Anonymous]

My spouse and I don’t have Facebook accounts. And if he were to suddenly get one at his age, I’d find it weird.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My spouse and I don’t have Facebook accounts. And if he were to suddenly get one at his age, I’d find it weird.

LOL, then this post wouldn't apply to you right? LOL.

[Anonymous]

That’s pretty childish and I’d be disturbed.

[Anonymous]

I think it’s a verrrrrrrry odd thing for a spouse to do in reaction to an argument. Between the fight picking and hiding of a relationship status, I’d suspect cheating. He/she can claim they’re “separated” or going through a divorce or whatever much more easily now.

[Anonymous]

Unacceptable period.Who does that unless they are hiding something?

[Anonymous]

People with FB friend deleting drama are IMO mentally ill. I think mental illness reveals itself so clearly on social media. I’d be worried about that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think it’s a verrrrrrrry odd thing for a spouse to do in reaction to an argument. Between the fight picking and hiding of a relationship status, I’d suspect cheating. He/she can claim they’re “separated” or going through a divorce or whatever much more easily now.

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[Anonymous]

This is a sign of cheating. At this point honestly I would think the marriage is over. That may seem extreme but it’s an extrapolation.

[Anonymous]

Seems like a very childish and toxic behavior in response to an argument.

[Anonymous]

Answering the question: I'd find it very odd for a spouse to do that if I was previously listed as the spouse etc.

If they did that in response to an argument I'd have to reconsider my relationship with them.

[Anonymous]

HELL no.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it’s a verrrrrrrry odd thing for a spouse to do in reaction to an argument. Between the fight picking and hiding of a relationship status, I’d suspect cheating. He/she can claim they’re “separated” or going through a divorce or whatever much more easily now.

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People with FB friend deleting drama are IMO mentally ill. I think mental illness reveals itself so clearly on social media. I’d be worried about that.

Agreed. It is a sign of mental illness. Normal people do not do things like this.

[Anonymous]

Yes I would find it strange. He only has an account to find out about his local car club. We aren’t listed as married, but it would set off alarm bells. I would ask about it and see his response.