Would you be worried if your husband was working with his childhood crush

[Anonymous]

It would seem weird not to say anything. That’s a huge coincidence!

[Anonymous]

DTMFA. You have no idea what will happen with this love interest from his younger days.

Under no circumstance should you have to put up with this. This is incredibly disrespectful to you. He has to break off all contact with this person, give you complete and unfettered access to all his devices and agree to counseling.

Dose this sound crazy? Well, if you think that is something, re-read your OP, OP.

[Anonymous]

Is she still hot?

I wouldn’t worry about it.

[Anonymous]

A first crush at age 12 and he tells you about her? It’s a cute story and he’s open with you about it. I know a few of my husbands ex GFs and I don’t worry about his relationship with them. We’ve been married 32 years and our level of physical intimacy is such that he has no need to rekindle anything. It also helps that I’ve aged much better than them!

[Anonymous]

I think the fact that he told you means there is nothing to worry about.

You sound really insecure.

I ran into my high school boyfriend once (who was on this Coast visiting his parents). We were our first serious relationships (but no sex) and dated for years AS KIDS. I eventually broke upwith him.

Anyway, cut to like 30 years later. I said Iwould love tomeet his wife and kids while they are in town (I actually often bring wives up, so the man knows how I see things). He was sort of embarrassed and said that she would not be comfortable meeting me (as in would feel threatened). I thought that was PATHETIC.

Made me realize how insecure some married women can be around single women. Your husbands are not all that.