Can we analyze jennifer lopez?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They paid 60 m cash for that house and it’s already up for sale . How can you not live separately in a 60m home?

+1 Amen

[Anonymous]

Jennifer Lopez pursues one bad relationship after another. It's sad that after spending time in therapy and even making a movie about it, she is still pursuing unhealthy romantic relationships.

However, all this media coverage and internet gossio about her is so misogynistic (and I am
aware most of the chatter is coming from fellow women). I don't like her music, haven't seen her movies, but I marvel at how she gets absolutely trashed while the same level of vitriol isn't aimed at Ben, who is an addict, an alleged cheater, an alleged groper, and more.

But let's analyze the woman because she's allegedly rude.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer Lopez pursues one bad relationship after another. It's sad that after spending time in therapy and even making a movie about it, she is still pursuing unhealthy romantic relationships.

However, all this media coverage and internet gossio about her is so misogynistic (and I am
aware most of the chatter is coming from fellow women). I don't like her music, haven't seen her movies, but I marvel at how she gets absolutely trashed while the same level of vitriol isn't aimed at Ben, who is an addict, an alleged cheater, an alleged groper, and more.

But let's analyze the woman because she's allegedly rude.

Ben gets bashed as well . All the time in fact. I think he’s the Hwood poster child of the addict which is unfair because he isn’t the only one, and he is also the Internet mascot for the beleaguered/“trapped” family man.

Photographers love getting his reaction and seeing if he drinks at events. There’s a whole industry related to Ben Affleck pap photos . It started maybe with the original Jennifer Lopez relationship in 2002, and maybe that’s why he’s resentful toward her for elevating his tabloid status

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer Lopez pursues one bad relationship after another. It's sad that after spending time in therapy and even making a movie about it, she is still pursuing unhealthy romantic relationships.

However, all this media coverage and internet gossio about her is so misogynistic (and I am
aware most of the chatter is coming from fellow women). I don't like her music, haven't seen her movies, but I marvel at how she gets absolutely trashed while the same level of vitriol isn't aimed at Ben, who is an addict, an alleged cheater, an alleged groper, and more.

But let's analyze the woman because she's allegedly rude.

She doesn’t pursue. These guys pursue her. I think they enjoy how she looks but dont enjoy the army that it takes for her to look like that.

She probably never gets real moments alone because she’s so high maintenance. I bet even on her honeymoon, she needed her makeup artist and hair stylist at her beck and call and of course bodyguards and personal assistants. It’s all too much for any guy to handle

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer Lopez pursues one bad relationship after another. It's sad that after spending time in therapy and even making a movie about it, she is still pursuing unhealthy romantic relationships.

However, all this media coverage and internet gossio about her is so misogynistic (and I am
aware most of the chatter is coming from fellow women). I don't like her music, haven't seen her movies, but I marvel at how she gets absolutely trashed while the same level of vitriol isn't aimed at Ben, who is an addict, an alleged cheater, an alleged groper, and more.

But let's analyze the woman because she's allegedly rude.

Ben gets bashed as well . All the time in fact. I think he’s the Hwood poster child of the addict which is unfair because he isn’t the only one, and he is also the Internet mascot for the beleaguered/“trapped” family man.

Photographers love getting his reaction and seeing if he drinks at events. There’s a whole industry related to Ben Affleck pap photos . It started maybe with the original Jennifer Lopez relationship in 2002, and maybe that’s why he’s resentful toward her for elevating his tabloid status

The "miserable Ben Affleck" thing as taken as a meme, a joke. It's passed off as "Ben is only happy when he has Dunkin and/or is with Matt Damon." It's said that Ben is miserable at events because he's with Jennifer. These are lighthearted jokes, memes, people find them funny.

The coverage of Jennifer Lopez is not similarly lighthearted. She is a rude, a "b---h," stuck up, so high-maintenance no guy can put up with her (as 18:57 says), a flop, desperate, pathetic, delusional, and so on. Her coverage is not lighthearted memes. It's mockery. The recent coverage of her "orange drink" comment, her "running around wild in the Bronx" comments- those were talked about with scorn, doubt, mockery, casting her as a liar, questioning the authenticity of her claims, claiming she was stretching the truth to try to be "down." Not covered in a lighthearted manner like pictures of Ben Affleck carrying ten Dunkin cups, or smoking a cigarette and looking weary. Those are reacted to as being "relatable!"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer Lopez pursues one bad relationship after another. It's sad that after spending time in therapy and even making a movie about it, she is still pursuing unhealthy romantic relationships.

However, all this media coverage and internet gossio about her is so misogynistic (and I am
aware most of the chatter is coming from fellow women). I don't like her music, haven't seen her movies, but I marvel at how she gets absolutely trashed while the same level of vitriol isn't aimed at Ben, who is an addict, an alleged cheater, an alleged groper, and more.

But let's analyze the woman because she's allegedly rude.

Ben gets bashed as well . All the time in fact. I think he’s the Hwood poster child of the addict which is unfair because he isn’t the only one, and he is also the Internet mascot for the beleaguered/“trapped” family man.

Photographers love getting his reaction and seeing if he drinks at events. There’s a whole industry related to Ben Affleck pap photos . It started maybe with the original Jennifer Lopez relationship in 2002, and maybe that’s why he’s resentful toward her for elevating his tabloid status

The "miserable Ben Affleck" thing as taken as a meme, a joke. It's passed off as "Ben is only happy when he has Dunkin and/or is with Matt Damon." It's said that Ben is miserable at events because he's with Jennifer. These are lighthearted jokes, memes, people find them funny.

The coverage of Jennifer Lopez is not similarly lighthearted. She is a rude, a "b---h," stuck up, so high-maintenance no guy can put up with her (as 18:57 says), a flop, desperate, pathetic, delusional, and so on. Her coverage is not lighthearted memes. It's mockery. The recent coverage of her "orange drink" comment, her "running around wild in the Bronx" comments- those were talked about with scorn, doubt, mockery, casting her as a liar, questioning the authenticity of her claims, claiming she was stretching the truth to try to be "down." Not covered in a lighthearted manner like pictures of Ben Affleck carrying ten Dunkin cups, or smoking a cigarette and looking weary. Those are reacted to as being "relatable!"

The stories about her being rude or high maintenance and famously having a “Don’t look at me” rule go back decades and it’s from the little guys like stage hands, backup dancers, flight attendants , security , waitresses, fans, limo drivers, etc etc.

Her riders /dressing room
Demands for all white dressing rooms with scented candles and such are also famous as is her aversion to tipping or letting her love interests tip female waitresses

These things started within her own industry.

She had to rehabilitate herself with American Idol to undo the diva image , but J Lo being high maintenance and stuck up to workers is a reputation she has.

She also has a reputation for being very hard working and for being beautiful . I don’t necessarily see anything wrong with nice dressing rooms but she herself started on the bottom as a backup dancer and it’s strange she would adopt rude behavior to people , but then also say she’s just Jenny from the Block. No she isn’t. She can’t have it both ways

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer Lopez pursues one bad relationship after another. It's sad that after spending time in therapy and even making a movie about it, she is still pursuing unhealthy romantic relationships.

However, all this media coverage and internet gossio about her is so misogynistic (and I am
aware most of the chatter is coming from fellow women). I don't like her music, haven't seen her movies, but I marvel at how she gets absolutely trashed while the same level of vitriol isn't aimed at Ben, who is an addict, an alleged cheater, an alleged groper, and more.

But let's analyze the woman because she's allegedly rude.

Ben gets bashed as well . All the time in fact. I think he’s the Hwood poster child of the addict which is unfair because he isn’t the only one, and he is also the Internet mascot for the beleaguered/“trapped” family man.

Photographers love getting his reaction and seeing if he drinks at events. There’s a whole industry related to Ben Affleck pap photos . It started maybe with the original Jennifer Lopez relationship in 2002, and maybe that’s why he’s resentful toward her for elevating his tabloid status

The "miserable Ben Affleck" thing as taken as a meme, a joke. It's passed off as "Ben is only happy when he has Dunkin and/or is with Matt Damon." It's said that Ben is miserable at events because he's with Jennifer. These are lighthearted jokes, memes, people find them funny.

The coverage of Jennifer Lopez is not similarly lighthearted. She is a rude, a "b---h," stuck up, so high-maintenance no guy can put up with her (as 18:57 says), a flop, desperate, pathetic, delusional, and so on. Her coverage is not lighthearted memes. It's mockery. The recent coverage of her "orange drink" comment, her "running around wild in the Bronx" comments- those were talked about with scorn, doubt, mockery, casting her as a liar, questioning the authenticity of her claims, claiming she was stretching the truth to try to be "down." Not covered in a lighthearted manner like pictures of Ben Affleck carrying ten Dunkin cups, or smoking a cigarette and looking weary. Those are reacted to as being "relatable!"

The stories about her being rude or high maintenance and famously having a “Don’t look at me” rule go back decades and it’s from the little guys like stage hands, backup dancers, flight attendants , security , waitresses, fans, limo drivers, etc etc.

Her riders /dressing room
Demands for all white dressing rooms with scented candles and such are also famous as is her aversion to tipping or letting her love interests tip female waitresses

These things started within her own industry.

She had to rehabilitate herself with American Idol to undo the diva image , but J Lo being high maintenance and stuck up to workers is a reputation she has.

She also has a reputation for being very hard working and for being beautiful . I don’t necessarily see anything wrong with nice dressing rooms but she herself started on the bottom as a backup dancer and it’s strange she would adopt rude behavior to people , but then also say she’s just Jenny from the Block. No she isn’t. She can’t have it both ways

Remember when she was arrested with Diddy and had to go to jail? She was upset she didn't have cuticle cream. She's something else.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer Lopez pursues one bad relationship after another. It's sad that after spending time in therapy and even making a movie about it, she is still pursuing unhealthy romantic relationships.

However, all this media coverage and internet gossio about her is so misogynistic (and I am
aware most of the chatter is coming from fellow women). I don't like her music, haven't seen her movies, but I marvel at how she gets absolutely trashed while the same level of vitriol isn't aimed at Ben, who is an addict, an alleged cheater, an alleged groper, and more.

But let's analyze the woman because she's allegedly rude.

Ben gets bashed as well . All the time in fact. I think he’s the Hwood poster child of the addict which is unfair because he isn’t the only one, and he is also the Internet mascot for the beleaguered/“trapped” family man.

Photographers love getting his reaction and seeing if he drinks at events. There’s a whole industry related to Ben Affleck pap photos . It started maybe with the original Jennifer Lopez relationship in 2002, and maybe that’s why he’s resentful toward her for elevating his tabloid status

The "miserable Ben Affleck" thing as taken as a meme, a joke. It's passed off as "Ben is only happy when he has Dunkin and/or is with Matt Damon." It's said that Ben is miserable at events because he's with Jennifer. These are lighthearted jokes, memes, people find them funny.

The coverage of Jennifer Lopez is not similarly lighthearted. She is a rude, a "b---h," stuck up, so high-maintenance no guy can put up with her (as 18:57 says), a flop, desperate, pathetic, delusional, and so on. Her coverage is not lighthearted memes. It's mockery. The recent coverage of her "orange drink" comment, her "running around wild in the Bronx" comments- those were talked about with scorn, doubt, mockery, casting her as a liar, questioning the authenticity of her claims, claiming she was stretching the truth to try to be "down." Not covered in a lighthearted manner like pictures of Ben Affleck carrying ten Dunkin cups, or smoking a cigarette and looking weary. Those are reacted to as being "relatable!"

The stories about her being rude or high maintenance and famously having a “Don’t look at me” rule go back decades and it’s from the little guys like stage hands, backup dancers, flight attendants , security , waitresses, fans, limo drivers, etc etc.

Her riders /dressing room
Demands for all white dressing rooms with scented candles and such are also famous as is her aversion to tipping or letting her love interests tip female waitresses

These things started within her own industry.

She had to rehabilitate herself with American Idol to undo the diva image , but J Lo being high maintenance and stuck up to workers is a reputation she has.

She also has a reputation for being very hard working and for being beautiful . I don’t necessarily see anything wrong with nice dressing rooms but she herself started on the bottom as a backup dancer and it’s strange she would adopt rude behavior to people , but then also say she’s just Jenny from the Block. No she isn’t. She can’t have it both ways

I don't deny that she's likely rude. Like many celebrities.

But is her "crime" of being a diva comparable to her husband's misdeeds, from the alleged affair with the nanny of his children, to the admitted (not merely alleged) groping of Hilarie Burton? Sexual assault is an actual crime.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer Lopez pursues one bad relationship after another. It's sad that after spending time in therapy and even making a movie about it, she is still pursuing unhealthy romantic relationships.

However, all this media coverage and internet gossio about her is so misogynistic (and I am
aware most of the chatter is coming from fellow women). I don't like her music, haven't seen her movies, but I marvel at how she gets absolutely trashed while the same level of vitriol isn't aimed at Ben, who is an addict, an alleged cheater, an alleged groper, and more.

But let's analyze the woman because she's allegedly rude.

Ben gets bashed as well . All the time in fact. I think he’s the Hwood poster child of the addict which is unfair because he isn’t the only one, and he is also the Internet mascot for the beleaguered/“trapped” family man.

Photographers love getting his reaction and seeing if he drinks at events. There’s a whole industry related to Ben Affleck pap photos . It started maybe with the original Jennifer Lopez relationship in 2002, and maybe that’s why he’s resentful toward her for elevating his tabloid status

The "miserable Ben Affleck" thing as taken as a meme, a joke. It's passed off as "Ben is only happy when he has Dunkin and/or is with Matt Damon." It's said that Ben is miserable at events because he's with Jennifer. These are lighthearted jokes, memes, people find them funny.

The coverage of Jennifer Lopez is not similarly lighthearted. She is a rude, a "b---h," stuck up, so high-maintenance no guy can put up with her (as 18:57 says), a flop, desperate, pathetic, delusional, and so on. Her coverage is not lighthearted memes. It's mockery. The recent coverage of her "orange drink" comment, her "running around wild in the Bronx" comments- those were talked about with scorn, doubt, mockery, casting her as a liar, questioning the authenticity of her claims, claiming she was stretching the truth to try to be "down." Not covered in a lighthearted manner like pictures of Ben Affleck carrying ten Dunkin cups, or smoking a cigarette and looking weary. Those are reacted to as being "relatable!"

The stories about her being rude or high maintenance and famously having a “Don’t look at me” rule go back decades and it’s from the little guys like stage hands, backup dancers, flight attendants , security , waitresses, fans, limo drivers, etc etc.

Her riders /dressing room
Demands for all white dressing rooms with scented candles and such are also famous as is her aversion to tipping or letting her love interests tip female waitresses

These things started within her own industry.

She had to rehabilitate herself with American Idol to undo the diva image , but J Lo being high maintenance and stuck up to workers is a reputation she has.

She also has a reputation for being very hard working and for being beautiful . I don’t necessarily see anything wrong with nice dressing rooms but she herself started on the bottom as a backup dancer and it’s strange she would adopt rude behavior to people , but then also say she’s just Jenny from the Block. No she isn’t. She can’t have it both ways

Remember when she was arrested with Diddy and had to go to jail? She was upset she didn't have cuticle cream. She's something else.

No, I didn't remember hearing of that, so I looked it up when I read your comment. All I saw was that it was an unconfirmed rumor.

You know what I thought of, though? I thought of how in her November 2023 lawsuit, Cassie Ventura alleged that Diddy made her carry his gun to intimidate her. She also alleged, among other things, that he abused her both sexually and physical. Last month, a video came out via CNN showing Diddy brutally physically attacking Cassie.

So your comment makes me think of all that, and how Diddy has been accused of abusing several other women (and men), and it makes me wonder if Jennifer Lopez was also abused, coerced, or intimidated by him. And it makes me think that if- IF- it's true that she whined for cuticle cream after three people were shot in a club in connection to her boyfriend Diddy- with one of the victims alleging that it's actually Diddy who shot her, and that the man who was imprisoned for it merely took the fall for Diddy-

Well, then I think wanting cuticle cream, if true, is a minor "crime" in comparison to all that. Hey, three people were shot, but can you believe the nerve of the woman who gossip rags say wanted nail cream? That's the REAL story!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer Lopez pursues one bad relationship after another. It's sad that after spending time in therapy and even making a movie about it, she is still pursuing unhealthy romantic relationships.

However, all this media coverage and internet gossio about her is so misogynistic (and I am
aware most of the chatter is coming from fellow women). I don't like her music, haven't seen her movies, but I marvel at how she gets absolutely trashed while the same level of vitriol isn't aimed at Ben, who is an addict, an alleged cheater, an alleged groper, and more.

But let's analyze the woman because she's allegedly rude.

Ben gets bashed as well . All the time in fact. I think he’s the Hwood poster child of the addict which is unfair because he isn’t the only one, and he is also the Internet mascot for the beleaguered/“trapped” family man.

Photographers love getting his reaction and seeing if he drinks at events. There’s a whole industry related to Ben Affleck pap photos . It started maybe with the original Jennifer Lopez relationship in 2002, and maybe that’s why he’s resentful toward her for elevating his tabloid status

The "miserable Ben Affleck" thing as taken as a meme, a joke. It's passed off as "Ben is only happy when he has Dunkin and/or is with Matt Damon." It's said that Ben is miserable at events because he's with Jennifer. These are lighthearted jokes, memes, people find them funny.

The coverage of Jennifer Lopez is not similarly lighthearted. She is a rude, a "b---h," stuck up, so high-maintenance no guy can put up with her (as 18:57 says), a flop, desperate, pathetic, delusional, and so on. Her coverage is not lighthearted memes. It's mockery. The recent coverage of her "orange drink" comment, her "running around wild in the Bronx" comments- those were talked about with scorn, doubt, mockery, casting her as a liar, questioning the authenticity of her claims, claiming she was stretching the truth to try to be "down." Not covered in a lighthearted manner like pictures of Ben Affleck carrying ten Dunkin cups, or smoking a cigarette and looking weary. Those are reacted to as being "relatable!"

The stories about her being rude or high maintenance and famously having a “Don’t look at me” rule go back decades and it’s from the little guys like stage hands, backup dancers, flight attendants , security , waitresses, fans, limo drivers, etc etc.

Her riders /dressing room
Demands for all white dressing rooms with scented candles and such are also famous as is her aversion to tipping or letting her love interests tip female waitresses

These things started within her own industry.

She had to rehabilitate herself with American Idol to undo the diva image , but J Lo being high maintenance and stuck up to workers is a reputation she has.

She also has a reputation for being very hard working and for being beautiful . I don’t necessarily see anything wrong with nice dressing rooms but she herself started on the bottom as a backup dancer and it’s strange she would adopt rude behavior to people , but then also say she’s just Jenny from the Block. No she isn’t. She can’t have it both ways

Remember when she was arrested with Diddy and had to go to jail? She was upset she didn't have cuticle cream. She's something else.

No, I didn't remember hearing of that, so I looked it up when I read your comment. All I saw was that it was an unconfirmed rumor.

You know what I thought of, though? I thought of how in her November 2023 lawsuit, Cassie Ventura alleged that Diddy made her carry his gun to intimidate her. She also alleged, among other things, that he abused her both sexually and physical. Last month, a video came out via CNN showing Diddy brutally physically attacking Cassie.

So your comment makes me think of all that, and how Diddy has been accused of abusing several other women (and men), and it makes me wonder if Jennifer Lopez was also abused, coerced, or intimidated by him. And it makes me think that if- IF- it's true that she whined for cuticle cream after three people were shot in a club in connection to her boyfriend Diddy- with one of the victims alleging that it's actually Diddy who shot her, and that the man who was imprisoned for it merely took the fall for Diddy-

Well, then I think wanting cuticle cream, if true, is a minor "crime" in comparison to all that. Hey, three people were shot, but can you believe the nerve of the woman who gossip rags say wanted nail cream? That's the REAL story!

https://nypost.com/2024/03/26/entertainment/sean-diddy-combs-legal-trouble-history-jennifer-lopez-1999-arrest/

Her and Diddy were detained.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer Lopez pursues one bad relationship after another. It's sad that after spending time in therapy and even making a movie about it, she is still pursuing unhealthy romantic relationships.

However, all this media coverage and internet gossio about her is so misogynistic (and I am
aware most of the chatter is coming from fellow women). I don't like her music, haven't seen her movies, but I marvel at how she gets absolutely trashed while the same level of vitriol isn't aimed at Ben, who is an addict, an alleged cheater, an alleged groper, and more.

But let's analyze the woman because she's allegedly rude.

Ben gets bashed as well . All the time in fact. I think he’s the Hwood poster child of the addict which is unfair because he isn’t the only one, and he is also the Internet mascot for the beleaguered/“trapped” family man.

Photographers love getting his reaction and seeing if he drinks at events. There’s a whole industry related to Ben Affleck pap photos . It started maybe with the original Jennifer Lopez relationship in 2002, and maybe that’s why he’s resentful toward her for elevating his tabloid status

The "miserable Ben Affleck" thing as taken as a meme, a joke. It's passed off as "Ben is only happy when he has Dunkin and/or is with Matt Damon." It's said that Ben is miserable at events because he's with Jennifer. These are lighthearted jokes, memes, people find them funny.

The coverage of Jennifer Lopez is not similarly lighthearted. She is a rude, a "b---h," stuck up, so high-maintenance no guy can put up with her (as 18:57 says), a flop, desperate, pathetic, delusional, and so on. Her coverage is not lighthearted memes. It's mockery. The recent coverage of her "orange drink" comment, her "running around wild in the Bronx" comments- those were talked about with scorn, doubt, mockery, casting her as a liar, questioning the authenticity of her claims, claiming she was stretching the truth to try to be "down." Not covered in a lighthearted manner like pictures of Ben Affleck carrying ten Dunkin cups, or smoking a cigarette and looking weary. Those are reacted to as being "relatable!"

The stories about her being rude or high maintenance and famously having a “Don’t look at me” rule go back decades and it’s from the little guys like stage hands, backup dancers, flight attendants , security , waitresses, fans, limo drivers, etc etc.

Her riders /dressing room
Demands for all white dressing rooms with scented candles and such are also famous as is her aversion to tipping or letting her love interests tip female waitresses

These things started within her own industry.

She had to rehabilitate herself with American Idol to undo the diva image , but J Lo being high maintenance and stuck up to workers is a reputation she has.

She also has a reputation for being very hard working and for being beautiful . I don’t necessarily see anything wrong with nice dressing rooms but she herself started on the bottom as a backup dancer and it’s strange she would adopt rude behavior to people , but then also say she’s just Jenny from the Block. No she isn’t. She can’t have it both ways

Remember when she was arrested with Diddy and had to go to jail? She was upset she didn't have cuticle cream. She's something else.

She went to jail for less than 24 hours. And I'd be extremely upset too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer Lopez pursues one bad relationship after another. It's sad that after spending time in therapy and even making a movie about it, she is still pursuing unhealthy romantic relationships.

However, all this media coverage and internet gossio about her is so misogynistic (and I am
aware most of the chatter is coming from fellow women). I don't like her music, haven't seen her movies, but I marvel at how she gets absolutely trashed while the same level of vitriol isn't aimed at Ben, who is an addict, an alleged cheater, an alleged groper, and more.

But let's analyze the woman because she's allegedly rude.

Ben gets bashed as well . All the time in fact. I think he’s the Hwood poster child of the addict which is unfair because he isn’t the only one, and he is also the Internet mascot for the beleaguered/“trapped” family man.

Photographers love getting his reaction and seeing if he drinks at events. There’s a whole industry related to Ben Affleck pap photos . It started maybe with the original Jennifer Lopez relationship in 2002, and maybe that’s why he’s resentful toward her for elevating his tabloid status

The "miserable Ben Affleck" thing as taken as a meme, a joke. It's passed off as "Ben is only happy when he has Dunkin and/or is with Matt Damon." It's said that Ben is miserable at events because he's with Jennifer. These are lighthearted jokes, memes, people find them funny.

The coverage of Jennifer Lopez is not similarly lighthearted. She is a rude, a "b---h," stuck up, so high-maintenance no guy can put up with her (as 18:57 says), a flop, desperate, pathetic, delusional, and so on. Her coverage is not lighthearted memes. It's mockery. The recent coverage of her "orange drink" comment, her "running around wild in the Bronx" comments- those were talked about with scorn, doubt, mockery, casting her as a liar, questioning the authenticity of her claims, claiming she was stretching the truth to try to be "down." Not covered in a lighthearted manner like pictures of Ben Affleck carrying ten Dunkin cups, or smoking a cigarette and looking weary. Those are reacted to as being "relatable!"

The stories about her being rude or high maintenance and famously having a “Don’t look at me” rule go back decades and it’s from the little guys like stage hands, backup dancers, flight attendants , security , waitresses, fans, limo drivers, etc etc.

Her riders /dressing room
Demands for all white dressing rooms with scented candles and such are also famous as is her aversion to tipping or letting her love interests tip female waitresses

These things started within her own industry.

She had to rehabilitate herself with American Idol to undo the diva image , but J Lo being high maintenance and stuck up to workers is a reputation she has.

She also has a reputation for being very hard working and for being beautiful . I don’t necessarily see anything wrong with nice dressing rooms but she herself started on the bottom as a backup dancer and it’s strange she would adopt rude behavior to people , but then also say she’s just Jenny from the Block. No she isn’t. She can’t have it both ways

Remember when she was arrested with Diddy and had to go to jail? She was upset she didn't have cuticle cream. She's something else.

No, I didn't remember hearing of that, so I looked it up when I read your comment. All I saw was that it was an unconfirmed rumor.

You know what I thought of, though? I thought of how in her November 2023 lawsuit, Cassie Ventura alleged that Diddy made her carry his gun to intimidate her. She also alleged, among other things, that he abused her both sexually and physical. Last month, a video came out via CNN showing Diddy brutally physically attacking Cassie.

So your comment makes me think of all that, and how Diddy has been accused of abusing several other women (and men), and it makes me wonder if Jennifer Lopez was also abused, coerced, or intimidated by him. And it makes me think that if- IF- it's true that she whined for cuticle cream after three people were shot in a club in connection to her boyfriend Diddy- with one of the victims alleging that it's actually Diddy who shot her, and that the man who was imprisoned for it merely took the fall for Diddy-

Well, then I think wanting cuticle cream, if true, is a minor "crime" in comparison to all that. Hey, three people were shot, but can you believe the nerve of the woman who gossip rags say wanted nail cream? That's the REAL story!

there can be several real stories around the same event. this is an interesting story about jlo and her priorities.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer Lopez pursues one bad relationship after another. It's sad that after spending time in therapy and even making a movie about it, she is still pursuing unhealthy romantic relationships.

However, all this media coverage and internet gossio about her is so misogynistic (and I am
aware most of the chatter is coming from fellow women). I don't like her music, haven't seen her movies, but I marvel at how she gets absolutely trashed while the same level of vitriol isn't aimed at Ben, who is an addict, an alleged cheater, an alleged groper, and more.

But let's analyze the woman because she's allegedly rude.

Ben gets bashed as well . All the time in fact. I think he’s the Hwood poster child of the addict which is unfair because he isn’t the only one, and he is also the Internet mascot for the beleaguered/“trapped” family man.

Photographers love getting his reaction and seeing if he drinks at events. There’s a whole industry related to Ben Affleck pap photos . It started maybe with the original Jennifer Lopez relationship in 2002, and maybe that’s why he’s resentful toward her for elevating his tabloid status

The "miserable Ben Affleck" thing as taken as a meme, a joke. It's passed off as "Ben is only happy when he has Dunkin and/or is with Matt Damon." It's said that Ben is miserable at events because he's with Jennifer. These are lighthearted jokes, memes, people find them funny.

The coverage of Jennifer Lopez is not similarly lighthearted. She is a rude, a "b---h," stuck up, so high-maintenance no guy can put up with her (as 18:57 says), a flop, desperate, pathetic, delusional, and so on. Her coverage is not lighthearted memes. It's mockery. The recent coverage of her "orange drink" comment, her "running around wild in the Bronx" comments- those were talked about with scorn, doubt, mockery, casting her as a liar, questioning the authenticity of her claims, claiming she was stretching the truth to try to be "down." Not covered in a lighthearted manner like pictures of Ben Affleck carrying ten Dunkin cups, or smoking a cigarette and looking weary. Those are reacted to as being "relatable!"

The stories about her being rude or high maintenance and famously having a “Don’t look at me” rule go back decades and it’s from the little guys like stage hands, backup dancers, flight attendants , security , waitresses, fans, limo drivers, etc etc.

Her riders /dressing room
Demands for all white dressing rooms with scented candles and such are also famous as is her aversion to tipping or letting her love interests tip female waitresses

These things started within her own industry.

She had to rehabilitate herself with American Idol to undo the diva image , but J Lo being high maintenance and stuck up to workers is a reputation she has.

She also has a reputation for being very hard working and for being beautiful . I don’t necessarily see anything wrong with nice dressing rooms but she herself started on the bottom as a backup dancer and it’s strange she would adopt rude behavior to people , but then also say she’s just Jenny from the Block. No she isn’t. She can’t have it both ways

Remember when she was arrested with Diddy and had to go to jail? She was upset she didn't have cuticle cream. She's something else.

No, I didn't remember hearing of that, so I looked it up when I read your comment. All I saw was that it was an unconfirmed rumor.

You know what I thought of, though? I thought of how in her November 2023 lawsuit, Cassie Ventura alleged that Diddy made her carry his gun to intimidate her. She also alleged, among other things, that he abused her both sexually and physical. Last month, a video came out via CNN showing Diddy brutally physically attacking Cassie.

So your comment makes me think of all that, and how Diddy has been accused of abusing several other women (and men), and it makes me wonder if Jennifer Lopez was also abused, coerced, or intimidated by him. And it makes me think that if- IF- it's true that she whined for cuticle cream after three people were shot in a club in connection to her boyfriend Diddy- with one of the victims alleging that it's actually Diddy who shot her, and that the man who was imprisoned for it merely took the fall for Diddy-

Well, then I think wanting cuticle cream, if true, is a minor "crime" in comparison to all that. Hey, three people were shot, but can you believe the nerve of the woman who gossip rags say wanted nail cream? That's the REAL story!

https://nypost.com/2024/03/26/entertainment/sean-diddy-combs-legal-trouble-history-jennifer-lopez-1999-arrest/

Her and Diddy were detained.

I'm 20:32- to clarify, what I hadn't heard of before PP's comment was the cuticle cream comment. I looked it up (searching "Jennifer Lopez cuticle cream diddy") after I read the PP's comment, and concluded it was an uncorfirmed rumor, based on these sites that either say it was alleged or don't mention it at all:

https://www.mcall.com/2000/08/12/spotlight-on-jennifer-lopez-cell-star-opens-up-about-puff-daddy-divadom-and-entering-the-psyche-of-a-killer/

https://forum.beyond-beautiful.com/jen-s-night-in-jail-1999-t813.html

The cop in the second link does say he got her some water- no mention of cuticle cream. Also says she seemed traumatized and mentions discomfort from being handcuffed for over an hour- but no mention of dry cuticles.

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Anonymous wrote:Jennifer Lopez pursues one bad relationship after another. It's sad that after spending time in therapy and even making a movie about it, she is still pursuing unhealthy romantic relationships.

However, all this media coverage and internet gossio about her is so misogynistic (and I am
aware most of the chatter is coming from fellow women). I don't like her music, haven't seen her movies, but I marvel at how she gets absolutely trashed while the same level of vitriol isn't aimed at Ben, who is an addict, an alleged cheater, an alleged groper, and more.

But let's analyze the woman because she's allegedly rude.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer Lopez pursues one bad relationship after another. It's sad that after spending time in therapy and even making a movie about it, she is still pursuing unhealthy romantic relationships.

However, all this media coverage and internet gossio about her is so misogynistic (and I am
aware most of the chatter is coming from fellow women). I don't like her music, haven't seen her movies, but I marvel at how she gets absolutely trashed while the same level of vitriol isn't aimed at Ben, who is an addict, an alleged cheater, an alleged groper, and more.

But let's analyze the woman because she's allegedly rude.

Ben gets bashed as well . All the time in fact. I think he’s the Hwood poster child of the addict which is unfair because he isn’t the only one, and he is also the Internet mascot for the beleaguered/“trapped” family man.

Photographers love getting his reaction and seeing if he drinks at events. There’s a whole industry related to Ben Affleck pap photos . It started maybe with the original Jennifer Lopez relationship in 2002, and maybe that’s why he’s resentful toward her for elevating his tabloid status

The "miserable Ben Affleck" thing as taken as a meme, a joke. It's passed off as "Ben is only happy when he has Dunkin and/or is with Matt Damon." It's said that Ben is miserable at events because he's with Jennifer. These are lighthearted jokes, memes, people find them funny.

The coverage of Jennifer Lopez is not similarly lighthearted. She is a rude, a "b---h," stuck up, so high-maintenance no guy can put up with her (as 18:57 says), a flop, desperate, pathetic, delusional, and so on. Her coverage is not lighthearted memes. It's mockery. The recent coverage of her "orange drink" comment, her "running around wild in the Bronx" comments- those were talked about with scorn, doubt, mockery, casting her as a liar, questioning the authenticity of her claims, claiming she was stretching the truth to try to be "down." Not covered in a lighthearted manner like pictures of Ben Affleck carrying ten Dunkin cups, or smoking a cigarette and looking weary. Those are reacted to as being "relatable!"

The stories about her being rude or high maintenance and famously having a “Don’t look at me” rule go back decades and it’s from the little guys like stage hands, backup dancers, flight attendants , security , waitresses, fans, limo drivers, etc etc.

Her riders /dressing room
Demands for all white dressing rooms with scented candles and such are also famous as is her aversion to tipping or letting her love interests tip female waitresses

These things started within her own industry.

She had to rehabilitate herself with American Idol to undo the diva image , but J Lo being high maintenance and stuck up to workers is a reputation she has.

She also has a reputation for being very hard working and for being beautiful . I don’t necessarily see anything wrong with nice dressing rooms but she herself started on the bottom as a backup dancer and it’s strange she would adopt rude behavior to people , but then also say she’s just Jenny from the Block. No she isn’t. She can’t have it both ways

Remember when she was arrested with Diddy and had to go to jail? She was upset she didn't have cuticle cream. She's something else.

No, I didn't remember hearing of that, so I looked it up when I read your comment. All I saw was that it was an unconfirmed rumor.

You know what I thought of, though? I thought of how in her November 2023 lawsuit, Cassie Ventura alleged that Diddy made her carry his gun to intimidate her. She also alleged, among other things, that he abused her both sexually and physical. Last month, a video came out via CNN showing Diddy brutally physically attacking Cassie.

So your comment makes me think of all that, and how Diddy has been accused of abusing several other women (and men), and it makes me wonder if Jennifer Lopez was also abused, coerced, or intimidated by him. And it makes me think that if- IF- it's true that she whined for cuticle cream after three people were shot in a club in connection to her boyfriend Diddy- with one of the victims alleging that it's actually Diddy who shot her, and that the man who was imprisoned for it merely took the fall for Diddy-

Well, then I think wanting cuticle cream, if true, is a minor "crime" in comparison to all that. Hey, three people were shot, but can you believe the nerve of the woman who gossip rags say wanted nail cream? That's the REAL story!

there can be several real stories around the same event. this is an interesting story about jlo and her priorities.

Yes, there can be several real stories around the same event. But someone whining about cuticle cream in no way compares to three people being shot, including one in the face. It's trivial, inconsequential. Furthermore, it seems to be a falsehood- I'm the PP who posted the links- the cop who was there that night doesn't mention diva demands, and other sources I found mentioned it only as being alleged.

So then it calls into question- why is a woman being lambasted for perhaps nonexistent diva behavior, where the same level of heat isn't directed toward men who've committed actual crimes?