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Or a national team, or a professional team. It's a hereditary condition, passed on from parent to child, and it's awful. As DCUM often reminds people, comparison is the thief of joy, and trapped parents are robbing their children of joy with their mentality. |
This is true, and its across all NCAA sports. That said, the international kids are not super impressive. Colleges aren't pulling in the best, they're pulling in "the rest." But, that means the bottom third kids competing for mid-majors and below rosters are going to lose out big time. |
Absolutes don't apply here. They are less likely. |
Congenital not hereditary, dependent on birth month. |
2nd and 3rd tier players from European academies who didn't make it to the highest Pro levels there are still far superior to most of what we're producing here. |
And you think playing musical chairs with cutoffs is going to make a weak and average player all of a sudden exceptional? |
Not clear on where your question is coming from as it relates to RAE. |
Based on the weird pushback from parents of Q1 kids, I wasn't before your comment but am now. |
Meanwhile, how many local ECNL teams have rosters of 20+? There is always a level of drop off especially the pay to play aspect of club soccer. The reality is as kids get older their priorities change to other things, social, academic, jobs etc. Club sports just don't hold the attention of HS age kids. They are a time suck. This has very little to do with a age cutoff but of kids simply maturing and choosing their interests. |
When people talk about "not being able to play club soccer with my grade peers" with the language of "taking away my right to vote as a citizen," it kind of tells you where some club sport parents' heads are at. |
It isn't pushback. Sorry your kid was trapped but if the cutoff changes it won't change the player that your kid is currently. It will make some things more convenient, but don't for a minute think that ECNL is doing this for your trapped player, they are doing it to help out College Coaches and make class recruiting a tad easier for THEM. It has nothing to do with your trapped player and her "struggles" or inconvenience. |
You went on some unrelated tangents there but this whole thread is about RAE and I get the push from Q4, just surprised by the high level nervousness from Q1 parents. So then the debate should be how to address RAE more so than what cutoff to use. No? |
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Birth year wasn't intended to fix RAE as much as it was to make it more obvious. RAE occurs at younger ages when a year of growth at 10 years old is significant in terms of development. By HS age the impact/damage has already been done. There is always going to be Q1 because of arbitrary cutoffs. I've gone through both age cutoffs and nothing changed other than the faces on the team. Kids were not magically better or worse players based on the switch. This is what folks are telling you. I'm fine with making the switch but it should be phased in at younger ages and then just move forward from then on. There are kids currently playing who started off playing under school cutoffs to have it change to birth year. Enough of the yoyo. Frankly, I'm just sick of the soccer overlords making these sweeping changes every other year more than I'm concerned with how it would impact my kid. And when the kids are older and they are on a team they like only to have that broken up always sucks, yes, even if your kid is trapped. |
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Still trying to figure out the true impacts.
Regardless of what naysayers post, trap years stink for the 8th graders, both socially and developmentally. Will they find another team, yes, they will, but the level of competition will be significantly lower most likely (playing with lower level trapped kids) BUT not truly a huge issue in my opinion. Junior year also does stink as well and is probably more of an issue for recruiting than most people would imagine. In my circle are three d1 coaches. They HATE split squads. Contrary to opinion above, most coaches dont go to one off games to watch a single kid. They go to top clubs in their area and to watch clubs where they have a preexisting relationship with the DOCs. And they have to bring a scorecard. Not saying they dont go to the one off game of a single individual they are interested in but that is not the norm. At all. Again, not an insurmountable issue but a PIA issue 100% Senior year is a waste. Majority of team is gone. You are playing with a fairly established team of Juniors that may or may not take kindly to your presence. Now, with all that said, who is really getting screwed over? It is 100% RAE issue. That really good younger that cant make the older ECNL team but would be middle of the pack on the year younger ECNL team. BUT it would be the exact same issue if they changed. Then it would be the lower level older who would potentially get bumped from the top team to the B team when the youngers from the above team moved down. Now, in terms of pure fairness, if you are talking about recruiting, it seems MUCH more likely for a kid that is a very good younger (not exceptional) to be "overlooked" by being on the B team whereby they would be on the A team with grad year. The older kid that gets pushed down, relative to their school peer group, and by extension, recruiting, probably isn't that good to begin with and was given an outsized benefit by being older. I dont really care one way or the other as my kids are Jan, June and Nov. |