Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
OP here, that’s exactly what baffles me about the response on this thread. Individual this, personalized attention that; you can find these at state schools too if you seek them out, but no one serves them to you on a silver spoon. You have to be a go-getter. And being a go-getter is much more emotionally healthy for kids in the long run than coddling them from 18-22. How do these graduates even function in companies? No wonder so many of them are shoehorned into the ivory tower as adjunct lecturers are what not. Honestly sad that their parents would *encourage* that sort of decision. Listen up SLAC parents: if your kids don’t have the executive function skills to cut it at a state school or a large/medium-sized private (like an Ivy), they’re probably not ready for college at all.
So, there are many excellent large universities...in other states. My own state, well, not so much. I attended a top 10 SLAC and then went to graduate school at my state’s ‘flagship’ university. I had an on campus job during grad school that put me in close contact with lots of undergraduates of said university. They were perfectly pleasant people with not an ounce of intellectual curiosity. I suppose they could navigate the campus to get to their lectures taught by TAs when they weren’t too hungover from the latest frat or sorority party but that was the extent of their ability to navigate the real world at the time. In the spirit of fairness my own focus at the university was purely to get a piece of paper degree necessary for my chosen profession.
Given that my SLAC did equip me to make enough money to allow my children to have complete choice in their college and grad school selection, they are looking at SLACs. If they wanted to be veterinarians or journalists, our main state school would be an excellent choice. Given that that is not their likely path, they will look elsewhere. I would certainly have no concerns of they wanted to attend a large university in another state provided they had specific goals in mind, but that would have similar costs as a SLAC and based on my own experience, would likely not provide a particularly stimulating or challenging undergraduate experience. Just as likely to be a waste of money as the critic so cleverly noted above.
I absolutely believe that kids can get excellent educations in a variety of settings and that if your DC goes to college with an advance plan for preferred career, the set of choices may be specific and very practical. I don’t understand why any poster would be blindly critical of another family’s choices without having any background on why they made those choices or even the wealth of options available. The only thing such condemnation illustrates is a lack of critical thinking skills.