Pardon? Only a doctor should question your questionable methods? |
Agreed. |
Some of this is valid. Post-ADHD diagnosis, I have definitely changed my parenting style and wish I had done so earlier. Not speaking for All ADHD parents, but I definitely contributed to my child's lack of boundaries. |
So you are an expert because you've seen a bag of medications? because of that, you can come here and lecture those of us who have: (1) seen the daily meltdowns and loss of self-esteem in our children disappear with medical help, (2) seen how judgmental parents like you label our kids as "bad" and our parenting as worse, (3) spoken at length to doctors and specialists who, unlike know-it-alls like you actually have expertise in this area, (4) researched as much as we could, (5) resisted medication for a long time while trying all these other magic cures ( seriously, what kind of idiot are you? Of course we've tried those other things. You have no idea what most of us have tried, you simply think you can judge us) that have done nothing -- to the point that when DC finally started medication she was ANGRY at me for not helping her in that manner earlier. But you are an expert. I wonder what motivates a person like you to sit back and judge other parents based on your myths and self-righteousness. You really have no idea what you are talking about and your post contributes nothing to our kids' lives except that you dismiss them. I remember the bad old days before the bags of medication that somehow offend you. The kids who were labeled bad or stupid, the way they felt about themselves, the drug and alcohol abuse they later found (which has been shown in studies over and over again) the lack of understanding and help. Judge away if it somehow makes you feel better. I'm sorry that you are so small that you have to do this. I, on the other hand, am busy giving my kids a great childhood and future. |
Is their great future dependent on a lifetime of meds? |
"A lifetime of meds." As if thats a terrible thing, so much worse than "a lifetime of failure," or "a lifetime of drug and alcohol abuse" or "a lifetime of failed relationships." I have very serious depression that recurred when I stopped my medication. So I will probably have "a lifetime of meds." Somehow I have trouble seeing why this is such a a bad thing. I suppose you think it would be preferable to have "a lifetime of depression." To answer your question, many kids no longer need medication when they reach adulthood; some do. Does it make you feel good to make ignorant judgments of other people? Does it make you feel superior? You would be such a failure as a parent if you had my children, you would fail them with your ignorant ideology. Either that or you would rise to the occasion and get them what they need, putting your ignorant myths aside. Speaking of low self-esteem, you must have that in spades if you feel the need to sit back and judge others as inferior. |
Some of the meds you are seeing are my dd's epipen, inhaler and allegra so that she doesn't die if she eats peanuts or of an asthma attack. Or maybe a child has a heart condition? How do you know what those meds are for anyway? |
| This thread is about ADHD meds, not asthma. |
My point was that the pp was disturbed at the big bags of meds at camp. How does the pp know they are for adhd and not for asthma? |
How do "many kids no longer need medication when they reach adulthood"? Do they just quit when they go off to college where they can do what they want? Are they afraid of mixing the prescribed meds with recreational ones in college? |
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Well, there has been some interesting research on this at NIH (where my son is part of an ongoing brain imaging study.) In 2012 they published the results of their research which showed that kids with ADHD have a lag in the development of certain parts of their brains. http://www.nih.gov/news/pr/nov2007/nimh-12.htm/ Then last fall study results were published that indicated that those individuals whose ADHD symptoms resolved with age had brain structures that developed towards the normal range, whereas those individuals who still had ADHD symptoms brain scans showed continued thinning in the particular area of the brain. http://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2013-10/e-rfc101513.php Roughly half the individuals in the study "grew out " of their ADHD and the other half did not. This is consistent with my child's psychiatrists observation of her patients over many years. What this all means remains to be seen, but the evidence seems to be mounting that the brains of kids with ADHD look different from those of non ADHD kids. http://www.kennedykrieger.org/overview/news/brain-imaging-study-preschoolers-adhd-detects-brain-differences-linked-symptoms http://ps.columbia.edu/news/new-brain-imaging-studies-pinpoint-attention-deficit-circuits http://newideas.net/adhd/brain-function-differences-adhd http://www.healthyplace.com/adhd/articles/subtle-brain-circuit-abnormalities-confirmed-in-adhd/ http://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/564917 http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=113258 |