Ok? Then just go to the state university? I fall into the camp that says don't lower standards for anyone at elite schools, whether first gen or black or legacy. It hurts these schools in the long run and doesn't necessarily deliver the benefits anticipated. A lot of those kids end up with a chip on their shoulders. First gen or whatever who has the aptitude and merit to get in and perform competitively, absolutely fine. But lowering standards is only playing games with them that can backfire and hurt them more than you might think. There's already a culture of what I'd call "privileged bitterness" that is mollycoddled by admin but doesn't do anyone favors. |
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My husband is a professor at a top 10 school. He literally has never complained once about the quality of his students; in fact, he has said frequently that the type of work they're doing is something he would never have been able to do at that age. When a professor whines about how students these days can't do X,Y, or Z, it gets picked up in the media because they're eager to paint the picture of an entitled younger generation -- it's a tale old as time and this happened with millennials as well.
As a parent of a high-achieving kid, his ability to write is probably the place I see the greatest difference (in a negative direction) from when I was his age. His district also has zero geography education. I think writing is deemphasized in elementary school now, but that's just my own anecdata. On the other hand, he is doing algebra and he is in 5th grade. Times, standards, and requirements change and professors will always be comparing their students to what they themselves were able to do. |
I don't know a single recruited athlete that is not a grinder. Competition forces the grinding. |
Most athletes provide no benefit. They used to provide an alumni donor benefit but now that benefit no longer exists except to the extent they are donating restricted funds to subsidize their own sport. |
I really hate the argument that "state schools" (many of which are incredibly difficult to get into) are the place where lower income students should attend because they can't "cut it" at the privates. Also, a very easy google search provides data and research against the claim that students from low income backgrounds perform less well than other students. https://www.jkcf.org/research/opening-doors-how-selective-colleges-and-universities-are-expanding-access-for-high-achieving-low-income-students/ And also the entire argument that elite institutions are currently flooded with low-achieving poor students is just baloney as well. https://www.insidehighered.com/news/admissions/traditional-age/2024/11/21/no-change-elite-college-low-income-enrollment-1920s The call is coming from inside the house. If professors are complaining about ill-prepared students, and those students are just as likely to be from the middle and upper classes as they were 100 years ago (which is to say, they are), people on this board need to look at their own children. The argument that all of this is because of diversity is Fox News class and race baiting garbage. |
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The assumptions made throughout this thread just show how completely sheltered some of you are. Which is in itself a case for supporting FGLI kids at elite schools—so your kids can actually interact with some people who are not like them. My guess is many of their assumptions will be challenged.
My kid’s HS is sending two to Ivys this year. One is an athlete from a UMC family. Nice kid, but has been known to cheat. The other is FGLI, tremendous character, and has been running circles around everyone else in math and science, no cheating required. |
For every one with lower writing ability, there is another with even higher writing ability. Mine went through an IB program in high school which required lots of writing and was an excellent writer before he even went off to college. There he won several $$$ prizes for his work. |
You or I would also probably have been placed in algebra much earlier also if we were growing up in this generation. But why is that inherently better to get put into an algebra class a few years earlier? I actually think that being able to write well is a more important skill than getting to algebra or calculus earlier? In any case there is firm evidence out there that many of you seem to be neglecting. For example the UCSD system seeing a huge number of kids failing to meet middle school math standards on Entrance exams, despite many of these kids having completed calculus in high school. (And there is a lot more firm evidence if you bother to look for it, e.g. PISA scores falling worldwide.) It's great that your husband isn't seeing declines, but he is one person, and I just feel we shouldn't ignore the bulk of the evidence and try to address the problem for the sake of our young people. |
The reason is high GPAs in high school are not a guarantee of proficiency in foundational areas. |
Literally nothing that you wrote is true. You are just blithering the worst type of nonsense. |
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I'm a prof. The problem (generally speaking) isn't the first gen kids (a few, yes, but this is a much, much broader problem). Nor generally is it the athletes (honestly, in my school the athletes in certain sports end up at the low end of the grade distribution but this has always been true). If these were the issues, profs wouldn't make general statements about "students today."
The problem is that kids coming out of HS are far less prepared than they were a decade ago. Hallway conversations are often about how entitled kids don't even seem to recognize they are asking for unusual accommodations (test retakes, "study guides" that tell them exactly what material from the class lectures/readings is going to be on the test). They complain that there is too much material even though everyone I know is teaching less content than we did when I started my career. They don't have good study skills (they often prepare for a test by simply reading the slides posted online rather than making flashcards/documents that will enable them to memorize or quiz themselves). My guess is that this is a combination of lax school policies and universities having trouble identifying the best students for admission. For instance, a) some universities are still test optional; b) so many kids get extra time on standardized testing that a disproportionally larger set of kids with the highest SAT scores are not necessarily the best students from that HS, and c) grade inflation makes it difficult for universities to differentiate the best students. |
You are absolutely correct. I fixed it below. Athletes were never unqualified, they just have additional skills that your little solely academic grinder will never have and you resent that. Some of them may not be at the top of the academic distribution (many are) but they are well qualified at any Ivy, Patriot, UAA, NESCAC, etc. |
We have no accommodations or any knowledge of these conditions like ADHD, depression, autism when we were going through high school college. Recognition and treatment of these conditions is actually progress, not a negative. We were told we were doing something wrong and fix it without any insight into what was wrong and how to fix it. |
Any data to support this? Didn’t think so. Your fact free uninformed opinion oozes with resentment. |
Competition, failure, resilience, teamwork and leadership is not unique to sports. The same dynamic occurs with robotics competitions for example...so much failure. |