Interesting because its global sperm count of men have declined 50% over the past several decades. But they haven’t seen a similar decline in female fertility. I do think they have improved birth control options over the past several decades. When birth control pills were first developed it was a blunt object. But they have refined them and now pills have much lower doses and the the pill has actually fallen out of favor for more localized hormones, you can do the progesterone only implant or IUD. And the copper IUD with no hormones is also becoming more popular. They just put one on the market now that is smaller for younger women that can be used for up to three years. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/search/research-news/17742/#:~:text=According%20to%20a%20CNN%20News%20article%2C%20a,than%2050%25%20over%20the%20past%2050%20years**[img] |
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It’s always someone with secondary infertility driving these PSAs.
Not to say that’s not an awful thing to experience…the stridency of needing to inform the public is too intense to not be based on a personal experience of infertility in some way. Let people find their own way. All the information is easily found by the general population. No one is basing their family planning on celebrity. |
This. No adult with two brain cells to rub together is doing this. |
| There is one troll who seems sure women are being fed some message that they can get pregnant forever and like, what? I got pregnant by accident in my early 30s. I heard my whole life how fertility declines especially after 30 and I stopped being so careful. |
Yeah. Most women I know got pregnant once they were partnered/married - it wasn’t like they had an earlier opportunity. I also know a fair number of women who’d like to have kids, but aren’t partnered. I don’t know any women who are partnered, want kids and are waiting a gratuitously long time to have them based on some idea that you can delay it indefinitely. |
This is something that drives me crazy about the "hurry up and have babies, ladies!" crowd. Unless you are a single mom by choice (which I'm sure these same people will howl about as being terrible), your timelines is not just up to you. And the pressure to find a good partner is often much more on women because men are not encouraged to plan ahead or think about family composition and parenting ability in their partner (men who are taught to do this tend to marry well!). So as a 20-somethign woman who wants kids, you are out there dating, trying to find a good partner and father, but also trying not to put too much pressure on it and drive anyone away, and also working on yourself to be the best partner and future mom you can be. It's a lot. And then you have people like the PP on this thread running around saying "hurry up! hurry up! don't you know your eggs are shriveling up as you speak! do you think everyone has babies in their 40s like Natalie Portman?????" Go yell at men. Go tell men that if they think they want to be fathers "someday" they need to become the sort of men who can be fathers *right now*. Tell them to stop waiting for a woman to come and fix them and remind them to go to the doctor and the dentist and develop empathy and be responsible -- they need to figure all that out on their own so that when they meet a woman they want to marry, they are already ready to go. Go tell men to stop dicking around on these apps getting distracted by ever new set of tits they see, and actually get to know women and find someone they connect with. Stop yelling at women. We've been yelled at enough. We KNOW. We're working on it. Go work on men and tell them to stop "looksmaxxing" and grow up. |
| This is nothing to celebrate. It’s mentally ill and demonic “doctors” aiding and abetting this wickedness. She’s not even married. |
Do STFU. You are demented. |
The 20 something year old women don't want marriage and definitely don't want children. There are so many wonderful marriage minded young men full of opportunity and promise, but very few women who want anything resembling a family with a strong, kind, nurturing, productive husband and kids. |
The young women are the issue. They just want a guy that looks good on social media. They don't want men who will be good husbands and good fathers. |
What part of “she had a baby at 42” did you not understand? That was #3 and wasn’t a surrogate. She most definitely birthed a baby in her 40s. lol. And why did you have my post removed that previously exposed this? Very odd. |
This comment was in response to the person tgat posted "Michelle Williams had a baby via surrogate at 44" not Natalie Portman. Michelle Williams paying another younger woman for her womb and her baby at age 44 is not at all the same as Natalie Portman or any other mom having a baby in their 40s. Surrogacy in your 40s is more similar to adopting a baby, and not at all the same to having your own baby in your own womb |
DP. Michelle Williams had a baby "in her own womb" at 42. So she had a baby in her 40s. |
The person wrote "Michelle Williams welcomed a baby via surrogate last April at 44. This was her 4th. She has 3 children with her new husband (born in 2020, 2022, 2025). She had them at 39 and 42 and used a surrogate at 44." If you scoll up you can see the entire conversation. |
I'm not that PP but since when is 42 not "in her 40s?" |