You have reading comprehension issues. Both myself and the PP said it wasn’t normal school for 2 years and that is correct. Technically they were open after 15 months but that year (2021-2022) was not real school by any means. |
All of my kids were back in school buildings by March 2021. That means they were in a "reopened" school for three months ofmthe 2020-2021 school year. Before that, my kids all had teachers who did a phenomenal job with online learning. What they did was absolutely school. Parent attitude had a lot to do with the success children felt and achieved. If your kid(s) had a bad experience, a lot of that was probably due to your poor attitude. |
| Even children can see that lipstick on a pig is still a pig. That’s reality, not a “poor attitude.” |
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I, as an alum, will happily tell you why we are more absentee.
It’s because we are stressed, overworked, not given open study periods to do work or take time for ourselves, and are put in buildings with derelict conditions (I can speak for students who are from a building that has either not been renovated since construction or in years since it last was renovated as I went to two secondary schools that are in this criteria). The overwhelming amount of stuff we had to do is enough to make a grown adult crack and fold, and because we are seeking relief from the perpetual and pervasive stress and boredom, we don’t come to the place that causes us such detriment to our mental health. Seniors show a bereftness in motivation as they get ready to move to their next chapter (college, workforce, military, etc…), but from the lack of mental health resources, secondary students feel such noxious anxiety or depression from repeating the same cycle they’ve been in since they were 5, but has altered ever so slightly since they were 11/12 to 18. If we’re leaving, that’s a symptom of a broken system! |
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You want the truth? I want to go on vacation in either the spring or fall. Spring break is too expensive.
They’re killing me with random days off and middle of the week half days. I don’t feel guilty at all. |
Several hypotheses but I favor this one: One hypothesis is that families and students became accustomed to districts’ relaxed expectations and revised instructional practices that were implemented during the pandemic; for example, schools might still be providing more-generous makeup windows or allowing students to make up more missed schoolwork online, relative to their prepandemic practices. Specifically, the availability of online materials to replace in-person instruction may have shifted at least some parents’ perceptions about the importance of their children being physically present in school (Diliberti et al., 2024; Saavedra, Polikoff, and Silver, 2024). School systems said, "F school, face to face interaction isn't that big of a deal." Years later, parents and the children who were in school during that time agree. The question is, does the increased absenteeism occur to the same degree in the areas that had drastically shorter "lockdown" periods and opened school as normal or near normal in Fall 2020? |
DP Lol no. If your kid is way ahead of the class, then the school is not providing education. Missing means zip unless you have friends you can actually spend meaningful time within the building. I was that kid years ago who finished assignments way before the vast majority of the rest of the class. I always brought a book to school to fill the excess time. Luckily that was only an issue in elementary, and I found my academic peers in junior high. I can't imagine how mind-numbingly boring it would be to endure in high school; especially since I have heard anecdotally that such obvious display of superior subject knowledge/competence (reading a book while everyone else is still trying to understand/work on assigned tasks) is frowned upon these days. I'm just glad the other poster's kids don't get hassled for missing school when they clearly don't need to be there that much. |
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I am appalled as a parent that some of you believe your child will learn better at home than school. Can they find the answers and write reports with AI easily and more quickly? Absolutely. Will they learn anything and be able to remember it? 99.9% of students will not. Unless your kid is absolutely brilliant, which means they can take some advance classes in a subject of their choose online. Many parents believe there kid is so smart, but the inflated grades tell parents they are smarter than they are. My guess is these are the same kids that cheat their way through test and do retakes and turn stuff in late and then say they are too smart for school.
Missing school will catch up to them as will cheating on assignments. I would love to see how these “too smart for school” kids are doing in their college. None of the current parents on here seem to know and I bet it’s because they are struggling because they never developed the building blocks needs to answer thoughtful questions. Furthermore schools is suppose to be fun, if you finish early be social. Kids that miss school are 25X more likely to be depressed. |
I'm appalled that you as a parent don't realize that all kids are built differently and that the public school system has morphed into a system that strives to treat all kids with the same cookie cutter approach that increasingly caters to the middle of the road or lowest common denominator (after all, we wouldn't want those kids to feel bad about themselves). You're correct about inflated grades telling parents that their kid is smarter than they actually are, but there actually are kids who are curious, want to learn, are predominantly self-taught and breeze through high school without being challenged and go on to do well in college because they actually are that smart. There are more of those kids than you're realizing and they are being shortchanged by their school so who gives a crap if they skip school. The kids who are using AI to cheat are the ones who have to in order to convince themselves and everybody else that they're at the top of the class. Like some of the other parents on here my kid skipped a lot of school in HS and is now in college with a 4.0 in mechanical engineering. We got tired of trying to convince teachers in middle school and high school that he needed more of a challenge than what he was getting. Also frustrated by how much time he was forced to sit in class with all of his work done and not be allowed to socialize, do work for other classes or pull out his phone or laptop. Literally just stared at the walls until the bell. |
Maybe some subject but all subject is not true. I doubt your kid was stellar and board to death in AP calculus, AP physics, AP chemistry because they should be taking all of those classes and more for engineering. If your son really has a 4.0 at VT engineering and we are talking about more than 1 semester good for them but this is a rare exception and not the typical kid missing 30+ days of school. And i seriously doubt your kids were told they can’t socialize if all their work was done. |
Why are people here so offended that public school isn't providing the right set up for all students? Is that hard to believe in a system of 180k kids? How can you get through this much life having never met someone who took a different approach or didn't have to work quite as hard but is still successful? |
At the spring musical and orchestra/band concerts and classes, the kids had to wear masks, then remove them to blow into their horns spraying air everywhere, then replace the masks when their part was ended. Because of course, covid air does not spread when you are forcefully blowing air through a trumpet. |
It wasn't a class. It was all on computer sitting separately from classmates. |
LOL. No it wasn’t. You must have really low expectations. |
+1 and sometimes with a monitor. Not even the actual classroom teacher. Even though they were vaccinated. |