You were probably fine if it was Ritalin. Adderal is more challenging. Luckily foe people with ADHD the Nordic countries have come around and access is growing contrary to the post before yours. |
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My older adhd kid was diagnosed since age 4. He is not on medication, and he has not used any academic accomdation yet because he has high IQ to get him all As in school. He has high anxiety and other disabilities. IEP keeps his accommodation on IEP plan just in case one day he uses it. He is putting in a lot of effort to stay focus at school and his teacher knows that he tries really hard at school. He sometimes tears up at school due to his high anxiety to demand himself to be a perfectionist. He pushes himself too much.
My younger adhd kid has academic accommodation as well which she has not used yet. She is on the border of failing classes. The school teacher has been encouraging her to use accomondation but she finds giving her more time is not useful because she cannot stay focus and she struggles in answering questions (learning disability). If she can graduate high school and go to community College, I would be really really happy for her. We will try med soon on her. |
To add, the younger kid was diagnosed adhd at age 5. Both have anxiety and considered high functioning. |
This is my kid exactly. Diagnosed with ADHD in high school and a stimulant changed their life. Without meds they FLY through tests. Medication with a stimulant SLOWS THEIR BRAIN DOWN. This is a hallmark of actually having ADHD brain chemistry. A stimulant slows you down. My kid will tell you "my medication allows me to actually think. Without it my brain is just flipping through things at lightening speed. With it I can finally focus" My kid also never had or asked for extra time (although of course the psychologist offered to recommend it in their write-up) My kid needed to fill the time they had. It's always bothered me that so many kids with ADHD are given extra time because if they truly have ADHD they shouldn't need it. |
Wrong. That is only one type of ADHD. I have inattentive ADHD and stimulants don’t have any effect on me. My problem isn’t that my brain works too fast or too slow— it’s that it can’t focus so I keep forgetting what I’m doing and start thinking about something else. If you have this kind of ADHD extra time is critical. |
+1. Having inattentive ADHD is like trying to take an exam while watching TikTok at the same time. Stimulants don’t help this situation at all. |
This is exactly what it’s like. My mind is constantly distracting me from the real world. It’s continually creating content that’s far more interesting to watch than anything in real life. |
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I 100% believe that ADHD was under diagnosed in the past and that many high-achieving people have it. The ability to hyper focus on school/career is a super power.
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| I am the pp with older kid having ADHD, high IQ and hyper focus on school (due to his autism) does well at school without using extra time. His brain works so fast that I don't think it needs to rest. He could forgets where he puts his things a few minutes ago, but he could remember mostly what he has learned from school. I rarely see him study for anything even before test or exam. He is just a smart kid for now masking a lot of his weakness. For the younger kid suffering from mainly ADHD inattentive, she forgets mostly what she has learned from school. She is in daydreaming mode at school even though she is trying her best to pay attention. We are planning to put her on medication. Some pp says there is no med to help her to stay focus on learning, is it for real? |
Then why would people need accommodations? Why would the school even need to know they have a DISorder at all? |
This one really burns me up because accommodations are generally the opposite of what is needed for anxiety. |
That sure sounds like a disability. |
| What kind of pisses me off about all the parents who claim their kid has severe ADHD and got all As and a 1600 SAT and admission to an elite school where they are doing great! … is that they pick and choose how disabled their kid is. There’s no way they are going to call their kid disabled when it doesn’t advantage them. The second they perceive a disadvantage they will assert that their kid actually needs no supports. And of course they won’t tolerate my actually autistic kid’s quirks if they are in any way inconvenient or even just different. |
DC is at state flagship; it happens there and everywhere. Turns into more time on MCAT and LSAT, then more time on Bar exam, etc. AFAIK, U.S. service academies still require testing without accommodations, as medicated ADHD is disqualifying. |
Exactly!!! |