| This is hilarious. Maybe you should place an air tag on that boy of yours. |
And you simply do get it, but that is true for most of the DCUM crowd. |
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So FERPA and HiiPA prevent professors from getting involved in students not showing up. They are legally adults, so they cannot check on either their grades in other classes, attendance, or mental health--it's illegal!
-SLAC professor |
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I am not allowed to take attendance but I do reach out to students and submit early alerts if they miss a few classes in a row or are in danger of failing.
One of my students died recently and I didn't know until I saw a news report. I care about my students' well-being but it can be hard when they stop attending class and don't respond to emails/calls. |
| The modern college classroom has changed quite a bit. Kids get up in the middle of class and use the restroom. Kids drip in after the class started. Some kids leave early. Most kids take zero to minimal notes. Very few eyeballs are up and on the Professor. Most eyeballs are reading electronic devices. Students drop the class without announcement during any week up to and including the final one. The classes are always changing. |
| If you want your kid to be more supervised, they need to go to a small college where most students live in campus. |
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“Hello Chad? This is Professor Weezic, your Himalayan Sociology instructor? Yeah, I noticed that you’ve missed the last 3 class sessions, and uh—“
“Bite me.” |
No way Chad is even picking up the phone! |
Yet we can call someone’s family if they no show to work for a few days. Perhaps you midunderstand FERPA and HiiPA. |
| I have a clinical teaching position at an R1 university, and if a student has been absent and/or not turning in work for an extended period of time, I do try to check in to make sure everything is ok and to help if there is support I can provide. But I don't have anyone's phone number, so if I send email and don't get a response, there isn't much more I can do other than to contact the student's advisor (if I can figure out who that is) and let him/her know I'm concerned. I do take attendance because we have a departmental policy that affects grades if there are too many absences, but between my committee work and grading--between covid, helicopter parenting, what the internet has done to everyone's brain (and, relatedly, both mental health issues and the fact that no one reads for pleasure anymore), my students' analytical abilities are nowhere near what they should be at this stage of their lives which means that I spend much more time evaluating their work than I might have years ago, in part because we assign more tasks and in part because I have to address more issues in their writing--I honestly don't have time to pay meticulous attention to their attendance. However, I also think, at least for traditionally-aged students who have the luxury of being able to attend a residential school, that part of what I'm supposed to be doing is preparing my students to be successful adults, and not hovering over them is a key component of that process. |
Not exactly. FERPA at least is both more complicated and more flexible than that. Especially if you are operating in an advisory capacity, you might like to ask for the next level of institutional training/information at your school. We're not as prevented from helping people as it may initially feel like we are: the law has a bit more legitimate space. |
| Women’s colleges are more known for providing “in loco parentis” |
Some lectures have 300+ students. You expect professors to be able to keep track of who is there and who is not? |
So in that example, the boss didn’t check up on them so in a college, it would be the classmates or dorm mates to check up. |
If your child isn’t responding to you and you are worried, go to their school for God’s sake! If they won’t answer their door, call public safety. If they don’t have a roommate, have them let you in. This isn’t hard. |