Legitimate question, have you ever been to gulf nation? |
turkey, Egypt, and Dubai. couldn't wait to get out. but I am a woman |
DP You are conflating wealth with comfort of social connections and what you know. Just because people are afraid to leave situations where that is all they know does not mean they are happy there or do t want more. I have lived in various countries run by dictators or close to dictatorships including Muslim countries. Yes there is a certain level of comfort in beinf around people you know and following customs you have followed all your life. But I can assure you that rates of depression/ anxiety/ hopelessness are sky high among oppressed people but they simply don’t have the mental health care they need or education/ skill sets and/ or legal resources that they need to get out. It is also hard to leave extended family and networks of obligations. In my experience, Both men and women want democracies and decent living standards. I strongly disagree with OP’s insinuation that lack of democracy often equals contentment and adequate standards of living. I have lived places where you could hear the scream of people being tortured by police or army for either being poor or supporting opposition parties. Although they could endure much more than me or most westerners but they were not happy. And yet they did not give up fighting for more freedom and control over their destinies. People are more alike than not. |
Women can do what they want, wear what they want, drive what they want, pursue the career they want, study what they want, vacation where they want, have a prenup if they want, propose if they want, stay single if they want and very very few would agree to willingly give up any of that. And the battle is on for them have control over their own bodies and the the number of healthy children they want. They will win that fight. |
Liberal democracy also means limited law that doesn't micromanage every aspect its people’s lives. |
If Congress can’t agree, then it needs more time and discussion. Presidents issue EOs when they don’t have enough influence or a good enough argument for something they want. And the number keeps growing with each president. |
lol. Gulf states send tens of thousands of students to the US on fully paid scholarships. Medical too. Take a look around in GWU next time you’re there. I work with this contingent. Over half are women. They are board certified and could easily stay here if they chose but most prefer to return home because they have a better deal there. Also, NO ONE can just up and move to the US. |
Why are they here to study if it is so great at home? You got your forced birther win but you better settle yourself down. You are not imposing some gulf state authoritarian rule in the United States. So sorry. |
Don’t comment if you are completely ignorant. |
what country are you from? In the US, if you want to show skin, you show skin. If you are Amish, and don't want to do that, you don't. And everybody has to work, even women in the gulf. They just do different kinds of work. Look at Iran. The women there are making it very very clear they don't want the life you describe. And very very few women in the US chose that life. The Amish. A few mormons. A few orthodox Jews. But given a choice, most women chose freedom. |
Only one of those, UAE, is a Gulf State. I'm also a woman and I am the one that told you not to project your own preferences onto other women. I'm a woman and while I don't choose to live in a Muslim state at this point, I totally understand all the reasons that the culture is appealing to the women. There are many things about our lives in the west that they find appalling. I've spent a lot of time in the peninsula and I wasn't counting down the minutes to leave, even if I prefer living in the US. |
I'm from the US and have lived in the Middle East. I think you'd be surprised that what we find oppressive isn't always seen the same way by other cultures. It doesn't make a lot of sense to say what women in a faraway nation that you've never been to think and feel. You don't know. You know what you see in the media. |
You weren't counting down the minutes? how did you spend your day? To me, it just felt so confining... I felt comfortable in my hotel room, and that's it. Not even in the lobby. do you have kin there? were you chilling with family in the woman's quarters? |
I have also lived in authoritarian Islamic nations and I completely disagree. They don't want what we want, they don't think like we think, they don't prefer what we prefer. Many people, especially people who think it's their duty to live as the Prophet Mohammed (pbuh) did, absolutely do not want the kind of culture we have, in which it would be an uphill battle of temptation and counterculture behavior to live as they believe they are called to live. This is the problem with Americans. They believe everyone is actually an American on the inside. They aren't and they don't want our culture, and they tell us this all the time in a million ways. |
Hmmm not sure I agree. I like riding a bike. Life would 100% suck there for me. I like my freedom. I also believe there isn’t a religion on the planet that thinks women aren’t inferior to men. |