No you absolutely cannot "fund private dx" unless you find an unethical neuropsychologist, and if anyone found out they'd lose their license. Do they exist? Sure bad apples in every bunch. But to suggest it's common to find unethical neuropsyches that "sell" high IQ scores is silly. The biggest way that this type of thing happens (falsely high scores) is when unethical parents go to unethical websites to purchase test prep/cheating manuals for something that is not meant to be prepped for like IQ tests. |
Thank you! |
Yeah nothing about this reply is true. |
It sounds like you're struggling with not having a clinically gifted child. Poor kid, to have a parent perseverating so much over that. |
Gifted is only 2% of the population. Extremely intelligent/high achieving people can still not be clinically gifted. You really need to get past your obsession about giftedness and your bitterness that your kids aren't gifted, it's unhealthy. |
Well-said |
By the way, the AAP program is not only for the “gifted.” There may be gifted kids in there but mostly are highly intelligent and hard working. My child is very bright and works hard as well. According to his IQ, he is considered top 1% however I still wouldn’t call him gifted. He still needs to put in effort. |
Equity! |
But AAP is about 20% of the population and most aren't remotely gifted |
FWIW last year my second grader was in the pool. Classroom behavior was rough and the teacher was too distracted to really see any individual students. My kid got a terrible GBRS from them and didn’t get in. We paid for WISC at GMU and my kid scored very high. We appealed with that and more good work samples. He still didn’t get in. There’s no “back door” and teacher input is huge in these decisions. |
Sorry to hear that but it's still very common and may depend on your center. |
I had a very similar experience last year, too. The GBRS is make or break. I’m disappointed because it is by its very definition, subjective. |
My experience several years ago corroborates your observations. My kid was rejected with a very high GBRS, test scores just under the in-pool cutoff, and advanced in all subjects, but with somewhat sloppy work samples. We appealed with a parent letter and work samples, and my kid was admitted on appeals. They don't care that much about test scores. The GBRS is what makes or breaks a kid's chances. |
Maybe the county finally realized how many were gaming admissions with all the private diagnoses. I'm guessing there's a new backdoor since people always figure out how to gain an unfair advantage. |
Move to a Title I district |