Killjoys cancelling Halloween--is this the new normal?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Having the schools take responsibility for Halloween was useful for those of us parents who found taking our child ToT to be anxiety-inducing events because of so many masked children, the crowds, and the time commitment. My child could participate in the holiday and I wouldn’t be subjected to the tortuous stress. Now I have to decide whether it is worth my emotional health to venture out with DD. I wish the schools would consider that before deciding to cancel something that was so helpful. I wish those of you so callously dismissing the decisions as NBD would think of someone other than yourself.


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Anonymous
I just love reading the outrage in this thread; it’s so 2019 to be worried about this.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I just love reading the outrage in this thread; it’s so 2019 to be worried about this.


Yet here you are in the midst of it
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry but I thought equity and equality and diversity including embracing and celebrating all walks of life and culture. Never have I understood it to mean abandoning American culture at least when it comes to Halloween.


Abandoning American culture. Oh, the melodrama of it all.


Move to China. Bye.




Nope. Staying here with our fall.festival. Cry more. It's SUCH a good look.


Hey loser, you were the one crying.


Oh, sweetie, look in the mirror. Sad.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry but I thought equity and equality and diversity including embracing and celebrating all walks of life and culture. Never have I understood it to mean abandoning American culture at least when it comes to Halloween.


Abandoning American culture. Oh, the melodrama of it all.


Move to China. Bye.




Nope. Staying here with our fall.festival. Cry more. It's SUCH a good look.


Hey loser, you were the one crying.


Oh, sweetie, look in the mirror. Sad.


People, you are being so childish. Reading this is embarrassing.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry but I thought equity and equality and diversity including embracing and celebrating all walks of life and culture. Never have I understood it to mean abandoning American culture at least when it comes to Halloween.


Abandoning American culture. Oh, the melodrama of it all.


Move to China. Bye.




Nope. Staying here with our fall.festival. Cry more. It's SUCH a good look.


Hey loser, you were the one crying.


Oh, sweetie, look in the mirror. Sad.


People, you are being so childish. Reading this is embarrassing.


Then stop reading
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry but I thought equity and equality and diversity including embracing and celebrating all walks of life and culture. Never have I understood it to mean abandoning American culture at least when it comes to Halloween.


Abandoning American culture. Oh, the melodrama of it all.


Move to China. Bye.




Nope. Staying here with our fall.festival. Cry more. It's SUCH a good look.


Hey loser, you were the one crying.


Oh, sweetie, look in the mirror. Sad.


We get it, you’re sad. No one cares.
Anonymous
Our school has never celebrated Halloween - I’ve had kids there for five years.

We have a “Fall Party” and keep the themes focused on autumn vs Halloween.

Here’s the thing: the kids LOVE it and don’t care about Halloween. They just love the celebration, the goodies, the craft. This year parents aren’t invited because of Covid, which is understandable.

It’s the parents like OP that want to stomp their feet and project all sorts of nonsense.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry but I thought equity and equality and diversity including embracing and celebrating all walks of life and culture. Never have I understood it to mean abandoning American culture at least when it comes to Halloween.


Abandoning American culture. Oh, the melodrama of it all.


Move to China. Bye.




Nope. Staying here with our fall.festival. Cry more. It's SUCH a good look.


Hey loser, you were the one crying.


Oh, sweetie, look in the mirror. Sad.


We get it, you’re sad. No one cares.


I am neither sad nor crying. You are the ones howling like 6-year-olds because your kids don’t get to play dress up and have Halloween parties at school. The rest of us understand that Halloween is the evening of October 31 and we take our kids trick or treating.

Bye now.
Anonymous
Some of you must be pretty young not to remember this.

There was also a constant fight between teaching evolution and creationism too, in the 90s, at least in the south.



I remember that! Guess now they're trying to revise history again.


Not the PP but I'm absolutely boggled that people old enough to have ES-aged kids claim not to remember this. I can excuse the immigrants from this piece of shared cultural history, but "Get the Devil's Holiday Out of Schools" was absolutely 100% a front in the 1980s and 1990s culture wars, led by the right wing.

This was also the era where Christian kids were encouraged to come pray around the flagpole every morning, in order to protest not being "allowed" to pray in school. In reality, they were allowed to pray in school but the teacher wasn't allowed to lead them in prayer.

Anyways, yes, getting Halloween out of schools was absolutely a right-wing evangelical wedge issue, taken up at school boards across the country.
Anonymous
Life did seem more free spirited when I was a kid.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Life did seem more free spirited when I was a kid.


I'm guessing you didn't grow up somewhere with Christian Dominionists controlling local/state politics. I grew up in a deeply Red county, and not only did we not have Halloween in schools, there was also no support from local government. No Truck or Treats at the library, no dress-up parades through the neighbohood, no extended street lights on Halloween. So, we had conservatives controlling school and private life.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:It’s the anti-culture wars. Apparently we aren’t allowed to have a dominant culture anymore because of equity. I don’t think the woke left realizes there will be nothing left to bring people together if all we do is cancel everything.


Nonsense. I'm a dem. Cancel culture is a problem. But schools get to decide their rules. It's sad for the younger kids who enjoy a safe, organized Halloween event. Businesses and residents give safe treats. For those who claim inequities of the poor, it's quite the opposite. For these kids, it may be the only option for innocent fun, free candy, and trick or treating with friends. Kids LOVE candy! Cancel candy, cancel fun. A§§ backwards decisions run amok. So glad my college kid experienced the normalcy of his parents dressing up, decorating, scaring the hell out of kids with creepy IT clown masks, schlepping them ALL to haunted houses, trunks full of masks and costumes set out on porch for kids to grab a costume. And CANDY damn it! We were always the Halloween chaperones, costume helpers, candy suppliers. All inclusive, and safely returned to their homes happy and groggy.


Again, this didn’t come from the Left. My principal is picking his battles with the Right carefully. He’s letting them win on no Halloween and fighting them on racism and homophobia.
Anonymous
Y'all need to stop assuming that this is always a decision made by the right or the left or for political reasons at all. In my MCPS ES, we used to have a Halloween parade. Parents could opt their kids out if they wanted. We started having more and more kids opting out because we have a significant population that doesn't celebrate Halloween for religious reasons. But those kids need to be supervised and engaged, so the teachers were in a position where they had to get 70-80% of the kids in their class into costumes and through a parade, and 20% of the class to another alternate activity where they would be supervised. This became a massive PITA for the school. So, we went to a Fall Festival. Much easier. It's just logistics, based on the cummulative effects of individual family choices.

Kids seem fine with it, btw.
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