Attractiveness > Money

[Anonymous]

People who are naturally good looking have way easier lives than someone who is wealthy but unattractive. I do think at a certain point, money and fame can make up for lack of good looks, but this is a level that is unattainable for most people (centimillionaire or higher).

If you’re a man born ugly, short, bald, small member, etc (something that is not easily fixable) even if you achieve decent upper middle class wealth, think 5-10M, your overall quality of life will be worse than a guy who is a broke or LMC “Chad”.

I fall into this category. I’m a man who is unattractive and never got attention from women until my late 20’s when career took off, but even then it was difficult. I live a comfortable life with above average wealth, but not enough to live a baller lifestyle like you see in the movies. I have family members who are poorer than me but better looking and act passive aggressive jealous about my finances vs theirs, but they don’t realize how much better their social & dating lives were compared to mine because they’re conventionally good looking. I would trade all my money to be born as a man with top 5% looks and live paycheck to paycheck.

[Anonymous]

It’s your personality.

[Anonymous]

Zomg grow up

[Anonymous]

Do you make $5 million+? There are plenty of gold diggers willing to look past everything else. It must not be obvious what your income is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you make $5 million+? There are plenty of gold diggers willing to look past everything else. It must not be obvious what your income is.

Net worth, not income

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People who are naturally good looking have way easier lives than someone who is wealthy but unattractive. I do think at a certain point, money and fame can make up for lack of good looks, but this is a level that is unattainable for most people (centimillionaire or higher).

If you’re a man born ugly, short, bald, small member, etc (something that is not easily fixable) even if you achieve decent upper middle class wealth, think 5-10M, your overall quality of life will be worse than a guy who is a broke or LMC “Chad”.

I fall into this category. I’m a man who is unattractive and never got attention from women until my late 20’s when career took off, but even then it was difficult. I live a comfortable life with above average wealth, but not enough to live a baller lifestyle like you see in the movies. I have family members who are poorer than me but better looking and act passive aggressive jealous about my finances vs theirs, but they don’t realize how much better their social & dating lives were compared to mine because they’re conventionally good looking. I would trade all my money to be born as a man with top 5% looks and live paycheck to paycheck.

Ick.

[Anonymous]

Incorrect.

Get therapy.

[Anonymous]

whomp whomp

[Anonymous]

It depends what matters to you.

I think health is the most important thing you can have. Wealth is the biggest factor in improving one's long-term health outcomes, because it can pay for preventative care, exploratory exams that are not covered by insurance, and for the latest medication or treatments that are poorly covered and cost the earth.

Also, I know pretty unattractive (and short!) men who married women who were and continue to be way more attractive than they are. These men are not even that rich! But they all have superior intelligence and apparently convinced their wives to marry them

My own husband is 5'6", much older than me, and when I met him, he had not yet made the fortune he has now. I saw his potential, and I did think he was cute.

So... I entirely disagree with you, OP.

[Anonymous]

Incorrect. There are plenty of very attractive people with mediocre or even miserable/undesirable lives.

Also, success and attractiveness to the opposite gender often depends on polish, confidence, and charm...not just winning the genetic lottery...and you can work on these things.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People who are naturally good looking have way easier lives than someone who is wealthy but unattractive. I do think at a certain point, money and fame can make up for lack of good looks, but this is a level that is unattainable for most people (centimillionaire or higher).

If you’re a man born ugly, short, bald, small member, etc (something that is not easily fixable) even if you achieve decent upper middle class wealth, think 5-10M, your overall quality of life will be worse than a guy who is a broke or LMC “Chad”.

I fall into this category. I’m a man who is unattractive and never got attention from women until my late 20’s when career took off, but even then it was difficult. I live a comfortable life with above average wealth, but not enough to live a baller lifestyle like you see in the movies. I have family members who are poorer than me but better looking and act passive aggressive jealous about my finances vs theirs, but they don’t realize how much better their social & dating lives were compared to mine because they’re conventionally good looking. I would trade all my money to be born as a man with top 5% looks and live paycheck to paycheck.

Which one is you?

[Anonymous]

I can't read this thoroughly or take you seriously but I read the "small member" part and FFS. This is not something that reasonable, healthy, normal women really consider or reject people for. Clinical abnormality? I mean, sure. But just a regular old small d? B****, please.

[Anonymous]

How small we talking OP

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People who are naturally good looking have way easier lives than someone who is wealthy but unattractive. I do think at a certain point, money and fame can make up for lack of good looks, but this is a level that is unattainable for most people (centimillionaire or higher).

If you’re a man born ugly, short, bald, small member, etc (something that is not easily fixable) even if you achieve decent upper middle class wealth, think 5-10M, your overall quality of life will be worse than a guy who is a broke or LMC “Chad”.

I fall into this category. I’m a man who is unattractive and never got attention from women until my late 20’s when career took off, but even then it was difficult. I live a comfortable life with above average wealth, but not enough to live a baller lifestyle like you see in the movies. I have family members who are poorer than me but better looking and act passive aggressive jealous about my finances vs theirs, but they don’t realize how much better their social & dating lives were compared to mine because they’re conventionally good looking. I would trade all my money to be born as a man with top 5% looks and live paycheck to paycheck.

Oh look, a red piller or whatever.

[Anonymous]

Every single good looking woman has dated a guy who was not conventionally attractive or "her type" - the common thread is personality and confidence. But so many short / ugly / balding guys just wallow down into the "I'd have such a better life if I was 6'4"!!" mentality that they're walking around either mopey or furious. And then when women are not attracted to a furious or miserable guy, he decides it's because women are shallow and he spirals further.