reasonable expectations for mothers day for 18 yo daughter 20 yo son?
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Anonymous
| What are reasonable expectations. Both kids home for the summer. Husband is in the house too. |
Anonymous
| If your husband hasn't taught them over the years, then the answer is nothing. My dh has been coaching my kids on this front for years. |
Anonymous
| Same ages - Son is home, DD is still at school. I went out for ice cream with my son last night at my suggestion and he bought me a card during the day yesterday. DD mailed me perfume (she picked it out herself) and called me. DH bought me flowers, a small gift and made us brunch. I didn’t want to go out this year. |
Anonymous
I think you should reasonably - buy all three of them gifts. Thank your DH for helping you to get pregnant. Thank the two kids for being born and becoming your children. You do know that this is a made up holiday, correct? - Mom. |
Anonymous
Good. How do you celebrate your DH for Father's Day or coach your children? |
Anonymous
| My kids did a joint phone call (both are distant,). I am happy with that. |
Anonymous
| Honestly worrying about how my kid honors mother's day is just another thing to worry about and I'm over it. I have no energy for it. |
Anonymous
Basic: Hug you and be helpful to make it a good day for you. Make or order some food for you. Extra: Pamper you, buy gifts and take you out. |
Anonymous
| I'm the OP from the How's Your Mother's Day Going thread, and I'm going to say, nothing. Which is what my kids did. I am glad we're all together and I know they love me. |
Anonymous
| Mother's day is just 1 made up day. You would rather have a good relationship with them 365 days. |
Anonymous
| A phone call. That is my family's preferred and honored tradition. |
Anonymous
| Wishing you happy mothers day and a hug |
Anonymous
| OP, revisit this in 10 years. Honestly, just put in on your calendar, for 10 years from now, to think about this. |
Anonymous
| Np, and I don't at all care about Mother's Day. Send me a text message wishing me well is about the extent of me caring. |
Anonymous
| Same ages and we visited MIL and family for brunch while getting takeout for dinner. Just a family day catching up on college and life. |