Friend problems-its getting pretty insane

[Anonymous]

I'll try to keep this brief as possible bc honestly its a bunch of bs-short version is a friend literally started the dumbest "fight" I've ever been in. Let it drag on. Now we're trying to work on resolving it (really rethinking this here because I'm going through some bad stuff right now and this person who's my friend doesn't seem to care), anyway she keeps asking the same questions over and over again, I give her answers and its not "enough" she keeps going. It's started to feel like bullying and its starting to be really bizarre. This persons whole personality has changed for the worse over the last 5-10 years and it's starting to feel not worth it anymore. But giving this one last try what would you do if a friend keeps asking the same questions then rejects your answers and keeps asking. It's like something is wrong with this person. What would you do before writing this friendship off?

[Anonymous]

5-10 years? It's over.

How old are you?

[Anonymous]

I'd be done by now. It sounds weird and exhausting.

[Anonymous]

What was the fight about? Is she a local friend? How often do you see her? How close of friends were/are you?

[Anonymous]

Are these questions about the fight?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:5-10 years? It's over.

How old are you?

Yes I have watched it change its been pretty wild.

Too old for this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd be done by now. It sounds weird and exhausting.

Thank you I appreciate your feedback. It is. I don't know if it's mental illness or what.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are these questions about the fight?

So are some aren't. This is the oddest situation I've ever been in.

Boggles the mind.

[Anonymous]

Not enough detail to tell who is the problem. But it sounds like you both would be better off without the other.

[Anonymous]

I’d say this has been asked and answered.

[Anonymous]

"You already asked me that several times and I've given you the same answer each time. What are you really trying to ask?"

[Anonymous]

Age? Perimenopause leads to erratic behavior and brain fog

[Anonymous]

We need more specifics. Or just be done. Your one sentence responses are off-putting if you actually want feedback, though.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'll try to keep this brief as possible bc honestly its a bunch of bs-short version is a friend literally started the dumbest "fight" I've ever been in. Let it drag on. Now we're trying to work on resolving it (really rethinking this here because I'm going through some bad stuff right now and this person who's my friend doesn't seem to care), anyway she keeps asking the same questions over and over again, I give her answers and its not "enough" she keeps going. It's started to feel like bullying and its starting to be really bizarre. This persons whole personality has changed for the worse over the last 5-10 years and it's starting to feel not worth it anymore. But giving this one last try what would you do if a friend keeps asking the same questions then rejects your answers and keeps asking. It's like something is wrong with this person. What would you do before writing this friendship off?

If I were you, I’d recognize that I bring a lot of drama to the table and I’d try to look at my friend with more understanding bc she surely needs to give it in return

[Anonymous]

I was like you in a situation like this. What was really happening was that the other person was in the process descending into paranoia and mental illness plus alcoholism. She would never trust the answers and grew hostile over time. I had to end the relationship and so did others. She pushed people away. There was also no way to help her. When you say she's changed over the years, mental illness could be why.