+1 undeniable |
Pretty high as both are living in LA and are very artsy. |
Finn was never a mini Violet/Garner. He was also never a girly girl. I'm guessing you don't have high school/middle aged kids but in today's age, it is not uncommom for there to be two gender questioning teens thrown together as step-siblings. I have other theories but suffice to say, at least they found each other. |
Ben definitely made it seem like his daughters were Swifties , so into Frozen, tried to get his son into it which he didn’t like (a comment he got flak for) so it does appear he abided by heteronormative gender roles re:his son and he seemingly much preferred his son because he could get him to like the Red Sox and he actually cared about his role as Batman. I think if she were Finn earlier, Ben would have been happier to share that his daughter is a tomboy with mutual interests with him. It seems like Finn was fine as Seraphina until she met Emme. The hair cut and change name and gender came after he moved in with J Lo and she started hanging with Emme who already was telling her mom to refer to her as a they/non binary. |
People aren't "influenced" into becoming non-binary. Jesus. |
+1 |
Some, no. Others, yes. |
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Non binary people are Swifties too |
We are talking about teenagers here. |
Tell me you don’t have a teenager without telling me you don’t have a teenager. I have seen this play out with my own eyes |
The most peer influenced age and people think it’s ridiculous the sisters are copying each other . They still have 2 more years of high school together. How will that work if their parents split ? Will Jennifer have to uproot her kids again ? |
Yes, but Ben’s depiction were his girls were mini Garners, just like their mom, into Frozen and Radio Disney and Taylor Swift and could care less about his movies. His son was far more enamored with his Batman role. It’s not like either Finn or Emme were like Shiloh /John Jolie -Pitt with a non binary or tomboy ish mannerism since childhood . They suddenly became non binary after both met. It screams imitation /mirroring or attention seeking . I am sure Jennifer was too concerned with Ben to care that Emme was still reeling from the breakup of the family with A Rod . The anti -Jennifer rebellion was her way of getting attention and resisting her mom . Jennifer said Emme had a hard time with the A Rod breakup, missed his daughter, and even posted a pic on IG of Emme crying . I guess that was her way of trying to shame A Rod which is strange because she initiated the breakup not him. He wanted to work through things and marry . She dumped him because Ben was bored during COVID and emailed her |
Couldn’t care less* |
Ive raised four teenagers and am a junior high teacher. There goes your theory. |