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When both parties are over 40.
What about 25 years? 20years? |
| When there isnt any gold. |
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Over 40, no.
I've seen some 20 year olds who have a daddy complex hooking up with 40-50 year olds. |
When there is gold or perceived gold. |
Are you the OP? |
| gold or fetish--some women are prone to having fetishes too-its not just men |
No, I guess PP is saying that it's not gold digging when there isn't any gold. I feel like you could argue that with that sort of power imbalance, that the younger one might perceive the older one as having gold in relation to what they have. |
Is old man a fettish? |
yes-a fetish |
Some women marry thinking the guy has money, or as you are saying, whatever they do have it is more than she has. I wonder if this is prompted by the Super Bowl photos of 84 yo Robert Kraft with his 52 year old wife. |
gross. |
Yes, that comparison to my dad, actually. Both are vile to me. |
At least she's accomplished in her own right. She still has to lay down with the guy who went to a massage parlor. |
| I actually dated a 57 year old when I was 24, I loved old guys. He was a good man and made me feel so safe in a scary world. |
| I had a family member with a 42 year gap. It worked. Wife was independently wealthy too. |