Which is Worse?
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Anonymous
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A. Lying to your spouse about sleeping with 75 people or:
B. Secretly sleeping with your fiancee's best friend two times? |
Anonymous
| Are these things before or after your are married? |
Anonymous
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Both are before marriage.
Partner A undercut the number of partners they slept with by 75. Partner B slept with Partner A's best friend while they were engaged. |
Anonymous
| I’m going to say that sleeping with your fiancée’s best friend during the engagement is worse than pretty much anything. |
Anonymous
| Is this some BS you stole from Reddit? |
Anonymous
| I'd say they are equal in terms of relationship damage, essentially. Both are horrific lies to start a marriage on. Though sleeping with one's spouse's best friend is probably the larger emotional zinger. |
Anonymous
Let me get this right: Bob and Amy are engaged. Amy slept with 100 people before she met Bob, but told Bob it was 25. Bob slept with Amy's best friend, Charlene, while they were engaged. Is that correct? |
Anonymous
If this is the case, I'd want to know why Bob was questioning Amy about partner count and why Amy felt the need to lie. Probably worried about judgement and that Bob would freak out. Sleeping with someone else while engaged is far worse. |
Anonymous
| B |
Anonymous
+1000 This because you broke the trust when you were in a committed relationship and engaged. There is a limit of self-sabotaging. |
Anonymous
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These are both disgusting.
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Anonymous
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B
I think a lot of people lie to their spouse about how many people they slept with before them. |
Anonymous
+1 DH lied. I caught him in the lie already but I never believed his lowball number in the first place. If he’s have slept with a friend and caused me to lose a friend or friend group that’s way sh!++¥er than 70 randoms who don’t mean anything |
Anonymous
| B. |
Anonymous
| Break up already stop playing games. |